17/07/2026
Don't let this week's setbacks define you. Rest. Recuperate. Begin again.
The road ahead may hold something better than you imagined.
and what if
after everything,
yesterday was not the end?
and something wonderfully
worthwhile
awaits around the bend?
I often add a qualifier like âwhat ifââŠnot to weaken the thought, but to acknowledge the unknown. It may not always fill sure, but it does leave open space to wonder. For me, âwhat ifâ is a starting point, especially when imagining what could be begins to feel too distant, too foggy.
I used to travel a lot in my early 20s (as a musician), and Iâd love when we travel through regions that had scenic overlook spots. Being so young then, I remember taking those photos, often thinking: âsomeday, Iâll be back! And when I come back, Iâll spend more time taking it all in.â
However, over a decade has passed since those days, and I havenât been back to the spots in the photos. As time goes on, it gets hard to imagine returning. But at the same time, as Iâve learned to illustrate and create scenes on a page, Iâve begin to embrace the âwhat if.â Sure, the scene image only lives on a page but at the same time, what if what seems far away comes to life in a new way? Something unexpected, yet worthwhile.
âWhat if,â âperhaps,â and âmaybeâ have become mainstays in my vocabulary for many things. I donât see them as simply a hesitation to say the thing fully. Instead, I seem these kind of phrases as a recognition of what I genuinely do not know, while also carving out space to imagine what might be possible, anyway.
I am not saying you must always qualify a statement with âwhat ifâ or âperhaps.â There are many times where the opposite works and is necessary, and declaring boldly is of course a powerful thing. And at the same time, there are these spaces in between, where itâs genuinely hard to imagine, to see the path ahead - and I hope in those spaces you can give yourself the permission of the what-if.
What if I havenât seen it all yet?
What if I do get to see the effort really did matter, in ways Iâll someday see?
What if, somehow, there ends up being something wonderfully worthwhile, anyway?
I canât tell you how it all plays out, but when itâs hard to imagine whatâs ahead, I hope you can embrace the âwhat ifâ however you can.