11/01/2022
You are not infertile because God is punishing you. You are not undeserving of being a mother.You are not infertile because ... fill in the blanks with whatever thoughts haunt you.
It’s hard to see others so easily achieving what we are longing for. It’s hard to understand why your body seems to have betrayed you.
Fertility struggles lead you down a difficult, lonely road. People are sometimes cruel about it, both unintentionally and sometimes intentionally.
I know especially in our Caribbean culture having fertility struggles can leave you feeling very isolated. It’s especially taboo to talk openly about it.
But please know that you are not alone. One in six couples go through fertility struggles. And more and more men and women unfortunately will face fertility issues due to lifestyle and environmental toxins.
Don’t give up hope. You don’t get the rainbow without the rain. There are many paths to parenthood. Keep learning, keep trying, seek professional help from a fertility expert.