10/22/2026
Years ago, a medical student asked my husband, Daniele, if he could watch a shunt operation from inside the operating room. Shunt infections are a real risk for children with hydrocephalus, so the rules were strict. First case of the day, and no one in the room without a role.
Daniele said no, and then he explained exactly why.
This year, Johns Hopkins honored him with an endowed chair in his name. The first person to hold it was that same student, now a young attending. He told Daniele the moment he remembered most from his training was being turned away from that room.
A no without a reason feels like a wall. A no with a reason becomes a lesson people pass on.
๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ญ๐๐๐ฆ, ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ. When someone asks for an exception to a safety protocol, what do they hear: a yes, a no, or a no with a reason?