07/28/2026
𝗥𝗲𝗷𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗶𝘁𝘆: 𝘄𝗵𝘆 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗿𝗲𝗷𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗵𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝗼 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱
Does a short reply send your mind into overdrive? A cancelled plan that reads like rejection? Being left out of something minor that stays with you for days?
You might have rejection sensitivity, and it is more common than most people realise.
Rejection sensitivity is the tendency to experience rejection, real or perceived, as unusually intense and distressing. It can look like:
• Scanning for signs you are liked or disliked
• Replaying social interactions looking for where you went wrong
• Pulling away first so you cannot get hurt
• Reacting more strongly than you want to in the moment
Try this when rejection sensitivity flares:
1) Name it: "My nervous system is treating this like a bigger threat than it probably is."
2) Reality check: what is the actual evidence, versus the story I am telling myself?
3) Delay the response. Wait 20 minutes before replying when you feel stung.
Rejection sensitivity is very common in people with anxiety, depression, and trauma histories. It is also workable. Therapy can help you separate real risk from old echoes.
📍 Licensed in NJ, NY & FL – teletherapy available.
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