06/17/2026
Not every birth story ends the way you expect.
Sometimes plans change. Sometimes decisions happen quickly. Sometimes you walk away with a healthy baby and feelings you weren't expecting.
And that can be hard to talk about.
Many parents minimize their own experience by saying:
"At least the baby is healthy."
"I should just be grateful."
"Other people have it worse."
But gratitude and grief aren't opposites. You can be incredibly thankful for your baby and still mourn the birth experience you hoped for.
You can feel relieved and disappointed.
Happy and heartbroken.
Grateful and grieving.
Those feelings don't make you ungrateful. They make you human.
Your birth story matters. Your experience matters. And you deserve space to talk about it without judgment.
If your birth didn't go as planned, know that you're not alone. 🤍
What do you wish more people understood about birth recovery?