Ask Sage: Postpartum & Babies

Ask Sage: Postpartum & Babies Martha J. Bringing clarity to everyday moments that often feel confusing.

Escudero (Sage) Postpartum Doula (PPD) | Newborn Care Specialist (NCS) | Professional Nanny
Helping caregivers understand babies through feeding, sleep, and early cues.

04/24/2026
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Baby Growth SpurtsGrowth spurts are the baby’s natural stages of development.After birth, babies experience many of them...
03/31/2026

Baby Growth Spurts

Growth spurts are the baby’s natural stages of development.
After birth, babies experience many of them.
Often, signs appear before the spurt actually happens.
Sometimes it may feel like a false alarm, but when it is real, growth spurts can come and go … usually quickly. However, many caregivers experience confusion during a baby’s growth spurt.

The reason may not lie with the baby, but with the caregiver.

Relapses are common; you might notice changes in your baby, such as:
• Eating less, or more
• Sleeping longer or less than usual
• Appearing quieter or more active.

Be assured that growth spurts do not turn one baby into another; your baby is still hungry and still needs proper rest.

What changes is how their body and mind are adjusting through each stage of development.

While you may observe the outward situation, your baby is physically experiencing the transition.

Think of it this way:
Babies move through growth spurts almost at the speed of light. It can feel as though they fall asleep in one place… and wake up somewhere entirely new. It is like taking a long flight to another continent; everything changes quickly: time, rhythm, and surroundings, and it can take a moment to adjust.

During these moments, babies may seem more sensitive or unsettled, not because something is wrong, but because they are catching up.

Like any significant transition, they need support.

Keep in mind that babies are aware of the caregiver’s energy. If the caregiver feels overwhelmed, tired, or unsure, the baby can sense it.
This can make the moment feel more difficult for both of them and even for the entire household.

That is why preparation matters.

Take a moment to pause and create a simple plan. Support yourself in the ways you need:

• Rest well
• Nourish yourself in a way that helps you feel balanced
• Move your body, or
• Bring in an extra set of hands if needed.

Caring for yourself is part of caring for your baby. Just as in everyday life, we must take care of ourselves first before we can fully care for others.

With a little preparation, growth spurts can feel more manageable and much less overwhelming.

At Ask Sage: Postpartum & Babies, I, as an experienced Postpartum Doula and a Newborn Care Provider, I offer personalized guidance designed for you and your baby.

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03/31/2026

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A Call for Transparency and Respect in Doula CareTo families and agencies supporting maternal and infant care: Doulas an...
03/22/2026

A Call for Transparency and Respect in Doula Care

To families and agencies supporting maternal and infant care: Doulas and NCS,



In my years working in postpartum and newborn care, I’ve come to reflect on how important clarity, stability, and mutual respect are in supporting both caregivers and the families we serve. I’m sharing a professional reflection impacting the quality and sustainability of Doula care.



Doulas invest deeply in their work financially, physically, and emotionally. We pursue continuing education, maintain certifications, and cover the costs of background checks, insurance, marketing, and ongoing professional development, all while working demanding schedules that often include overnight care.

In recent years, the industry has grown significantly, bringing both opportunity and increased competition. While the demand for care remains strong, securing consistent placements can be unpredictable. Many doulas spend extended periods between contracts actively interviewing, traveling, and preparing for work without compensation.

Because of this reality, clear and timely payment practices are essential.

For agencies, transparent communication regarding payroll systems, pay periods, and timelines is critical. For families, understanding how payment structures affect caregivers helps ensure a stable, reliable working relationship.

Lack of clarity in payment schedules, regardless of the deposit system used, can lead to late fees, service interruptions, and financial instability when deposits are delayed. These are not minor inconveniences; they directly impact a caregiver’s ability to maintain the tools, transportation, and availability required to provide consistent care.

The doula profession is rooted in care, trust, and stability. For caregivers to provide calm, present, and supportive care, they themselves must be supported with clarity and respect. This is not a matter of privilege; it is a matter of alignment between the value of care provided and the structure that supports it.

A profession that gives so much should not be sustained by uncertainty.



It is also important to recognize that payment structures within the industry can vary. When a doula is hired directly by a client through independent marketing, payment is made directly from the client to the doula. When services are arranged through an agency, the agency assumes responsibility for deposit payment to the doula, in both scenarios, as agreed in the contract.



Retainers are often used to secure availability and may or may not be applied toward services, depending on the agreement. In addition, insurance reimbursements are typically directed to the client, not the agency or the doula. Regardless of how or when funds are received, the responsibility for timely payment to the doula remains within the agreed arrangement between the hiring party and the caregiver.

Consistent, timely payment is highly valued within the doula profession, as it reflects mutual respect and supports the stability required to provide the highest level of care.

Hello, Moms and Caregivers 🤍I created this space to support you during those moments when nothing seems to work.If your ...
03/18/2026

Hello, Moms and Caregivers 🤍

I created this space to support you during those moments when nothing seems to work.

If your baby is refusing to eat, fighting sleep, or crying and you’re not sure why… You can ask me here.

I will guide you based on what your baby is showing.

You are not alone.

Trust your baby. Learn the process.

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