04/08/2026
Breastfeeding is not about trying hard enough. It's not about whether you were able to pay for all the classes and the consults. If it were, it would only work for people with the privilege to access all those resources.
I've seen A LOT of families over the years and whether they breastfed for any amount of time or not didn't have a whole lot to do with whether or not they could afford my services.
You need support. Yes, sometimes you need professional support. But you also need practical support, tangible support, and emotional support (someone needs to tell you to stop trippin!).
Having support is not being extra. That support protects your mental health, eases the transition to caring for a tiny life, and improves your chances of actually meeting the goals YOU set.
As always, REACH OUT to your lactation consultant, your people, whatever support looks like for you. You deserve it.