10/01/2026
💕 Life Lessons with Lily: Comfort Zone 💕
Lily has resisted almost everything we have suggested to her for after school activities.
Dance again….nope!
Tennis lessons…nope!
Swim lessons…nope!
So, you know what I’m gathering?? She’s afraid of stepping out of her comfort zone and trying new stuff! It’s easier to just say no and resist the unknown.
As her parents, we know she will end up finding what she enjoys by exposing her to new sports and activities. So we signed her up for tennis lessons, even with her resisting it. We will get on the courts with her to give her some time to prepare before lessons and help her feel more comfortable, but we won’t give into her resistance.
The parallels I see as a coach are astounding! Resistance to the unknown, staying in our comfort zone, letting fear drive behavior. Missing out on fun and amazing opportunities because the familiar feels safer. Relate?
I can tell you from my own life and experiences, getting out of my comfort zone has led to some incredible opportunities like playing college volleyball, living at the beach, getting married, becoming a mom, running a business and so much more!!! I’ve learned the “comfort zone” may feel safe but it’s not where we grow and truly LIVE🤩🩷
