Circle of Healing Souls

06/16/2026

There is one moment in my life I will never forget.

Many years ago, my counselor looked at me and asked a simple question.

“How much do you love yourself?”

Without hesitation, I answered, “I hate myself.”

The words came out so naturally that I didn’t even think about them.

When I got home, I sat in complete embarrassment. Not only had I felt that way—I had actually said it out loud. For the first time, I heard the truth of my own pain.

That moment became one of the most defining moments of my life.

I decided something had to change.

The problem was… I had no idea how.

No one had ever taught me how to love myself.

But then I began asking a different question.

Are any of us ever truly taught how to love ourselves?

Most parents don’t teach it because no one taught them. We simply assume that self-love is something we’re born knowing.

It isn’t.

When children grow up in dysfunctional homes, they don’t stop loving their parents.

They stop loving themselves.

They learn to believe they aren’t enough.
They learn to silence their needs.
They learn that their worth depends on keeping the peace, pleasing others, or simply surviving.

Loving yourself isn’t selfish.

It isn’t arrogance.

And it certainly isn’t ego.

Authentic self-love is one of the healthiest things a human being can develop.

Ironically, ego is often the mask we wear when we don’t truly love ourselves. It’s easier to project confidence than to admit we’re hurting.

I tell my clients every single day:

The most important relationship you will ever have is the relationship you have with yourself.

So I ask them a question.

“On a scale from 1 to 10… how much do you genuinely love yourself?”

Most people immediately answer, “Ten.”

But sometimes I gently challenge them.

Because if you truly loved yourself deeply, would you constantly criticize yourself?
Would you stay in relationships that diminish you?
Would you abandon your own needs?
Would you believe you aren’t worthy?

Sometimes the bravest answer isn’t “ten.”

Sometimes the bravest answer is…

“I don’t know if I love myself at all.”

Because you cannot change what you refuse to acknowledge.

The moment you can honestly say, “I don’t love myself the way I deserve,” shame begins to lose its grip.

Awareness is not failure.

Awareness is the beginning of healing.

For me, everything changed the day I stopped pretending… and finally told the truth.

That single sentence—

“I hate myself.”

became the first step toward learning to say…

“I am finally learning to love the person I’ve been with all along.”

05/05/2026

There is a quiet moment in healing…
when you realize you’re ready to go deeper.

Not just to talk—
but to understand… to release… to reconnect with who you truly are beneath it all.

My spiritual psychotherapy sessions are created for those who feel that calling—
a more meaningful, soul-centered approach that honors the connection between your mind, emotions, and inner self.

This work is gentle… intentional… and deeply personal.
A continuation for those I’ve already had the privilege of working with.

If you feel that pull to continue your journey, trust it.

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04/29/2026

Everyone should hear this…
As a child…
you were edited.

Edited in the way you spoke,
the way you felt,
the way you expressed yourself.

Certain parts of you were accepted…
others were corrected, silenced, or rejected.

So you learned.

You learned which emotions were “too much.”
Which thoughts were “wrong.”
Which parts of you needed to be hidden to be loved.

And little by little…
you became a version of yourself that fit the world around you.

Not the real you—
but the edited you.

A safer you.
A quieter you.
A more acceptable you.

And you carried that version into adulthood.

You built a life from it.
Relationships from it.
An identity from it.

Until one day…
something doesn’t feel right.

Because deep down, beneath all the edits…
you’re still there.

Unchanged.
Unfiltered.
Unedited.

And at some point, whether through pain, growth, or awakening…
you realize:

It’s time to unedit yourself.

To feel what you were taught to suppress.
To speak what you were taught to hold in.
To become who you were before the world told you who to be.

Not louder for attention…
but truer for yourself.

Because healing isn’t about becoming someone new.

It’s about returning
to who you were
before you were edited. ✨

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04/28/2026

I’m beyond excited to finally share this… ✨

My book is nearly finished and will be going to publication soon. 📖Coming soon to a bookshelf near you—and available on Amazon.

This isn’t just a book… it’s my story.

A journey from survival to healing…From silence to finding my voice…From pain to purpose.

Within these pages, I open up about what it truly means to overcome trauma, rebuild your life, and rediscover who you are at your core.

This is more than my experience—it’s a message for anyone who has ever felt lost, unheard, or broken.

Because healing is possible.Finding your voice is possible.Living a life filled with love, peace, and purpose is possible.

Here’s a small glimpse into what this book is about… ✨

Where Purpose Begins
And that—
is where healing truly begins.
But it doesn’t end there.
Because something happens when a person begins to heal.
When they feel seen… heard… valued… sometimes for the very first time.
They begin to remember.
Not who the world told them they were.
Not who their pain shaped them into being.
But who they were before all of it.
That’s the moment everything starts to change.
Their voice returns.
Their strength rises.
Their truth becomes undeniable.
And as I’ve walked alongside so many on this journey, I’ve come to understand something deeply:
My story was never just about me.
It was preparation.
Every moment of pain…
Every experience that broke me…
Every time I had to rebuild myself from nothing…
It was shaping me into someone who could sit across from another human being and truly understand them.
Not from a place of theory—
but from lived experience.
Because when you’ve walked through darkness…
you don’t fear sitting with someone else in theirs.
You know the way out.
And this is where my purpose lives.
Not in fixing people.
Not in saving them.
But in holding space for them to find themselves again.
To help them see what I can already see—
that beneath the pain… beneath the trauma… beneath the silence…
They are still whole.
They are still worthy.
They are still powerful.
I simply help guide them back to that truth.
Because healing isn’t something I give to someone else.
It’s something I help them uncover within themselves.
And when they begin to feel it—
when they begin to believe it—
everything changes.
They no longer see themselves as victims of their past.
They begin to see themselves as creators of their future.
And that… is the full circle.
From silence to voice.
From pain to purpose.
From surviving… to truly living.
This is the work I was called to do.
This is the life I was meant to live.
And if my story has taught me anything, it’s this:
Your past does not define you—
but it can prepare you.
And when you have the courage to face it, to heal it, to rise from it…
You don’t just change your own life.
You become the light that helps others find their way home.

I can’t wait to share this journey with you. 💛