06/03/2026
🌿Wellness Wednesday: Feeling disappointed?
Have you ever felt like you show up for people in ways they never seem to show up for you?
Maybe you’re the one who remembers birthdays, sends encouraging texts, gives thoughtful gifts, offers wise counsel, or notices when someone is struggling. When those things aren’t returned, it’s easy to feel unseen, unimportant, or undervalued.
But what if the issue isn’t that people don’t care?
What if God has simply gifted you differently?
Scripture teaches that God gives each of us unique gifts. The Bible identifies many spiritual gifts. Some are gifted with encouragement. Some with hospitality. Some with compassion. And so on…..
Sometimes we become disappointed because we expect others to show up the same way we show up for them.
If giving encouragement is your gift, you may naturally crave encouraging words. If giving gifts is your gift, thoughtful gifts may mean a great deal to you. We often value most highly the very things we freely give away.
Before assuming someone doesn’t care, ask yourself:
“Are they withholding their gift from me, or am I expecting them to have the same gift I have?”
God gave you a gift not because He intended for everyone to give it back to you, but because He intended for you to use it to bless others.
So be careful not to take every situation personally. Look for the gifts people are offering, even when they look different than the ones you give.
And be grateful for every gift you receive.
After all, the body of Christ was never designed so that everyone would be the same. It was designed so that each of us would bring something unique to the table.
Sometimes the very thing that frustrates you is evidence of the gift God placed within you. You notice what others miss because that’s how He wired you. You give encouragement because you understand the power of being encouraged. You show compassion because you understand what it feels like to need it. Your gift isn’t just something you do—it’s often born from what God has done in you.
Your gift has a PURPOSE! And so does theirs!
Perspective matters!