09/14/2026
The most important relationship you’ll ever have is not the one with your partner or spouse. 💍👰🏽🤵🏽
It’s not the one with your parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, family, your friends, your boss, or your coworkers. 👯♀️
The most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with YOU. 🫵🏽
And yet it’s the one most of us have never been taught to tend to or prioritize. ❌
We were taught how to be a good daughter. A good friend. A good partner. A good employee. 🏃🏽♀️
We were taught to show up for everyone else, to be dependable, to be available, to be easy to love.
Nobody sat us down and said, ‘How are you showing up for yourself?’ ‘What are you doing for you?’ 🫂
Nobody taught us to listen to our own needs the way we listen to everyone else’s.
To speak to ourselves with the kindness we offer strangers.
To stay when things get hard inside ourselves the way we stay for the people we love.
And so we outsourced it. We looked for that relationship and validation everywhere else. 👀
In the validation of others. In the approval of our families. In the arms of partners who were never meant to carry what we couldn’t give ourselves.
And we wondered why nothing ever feels like enough. 😓
Here’s what I know now: every relationship in your life will only ever be as deep as the one you have with yourself.
How you let people treat you. What you believe you deserve. How much of yourself you give away trying to earn what was always yours to begin with.
It all starts here. With you. 🧘🏽♀️
The question isn’t whether you have time to tend to this relationship with yourself.
The question is how much longer you can afford not to and when will you have had enough? ⏳
If you’re ready to stop waiting and start coming home to yourself, I have a free 30 minute Ya Basta Call where we explore what’s been keeping you stuck and what coming home to yourself could actually look like for you. DM me to book! 💖