09/07/2026
Sometimes we ask children questions because we want them to talk.
"What color is that?"
"What is this?"
"Where's your shoe?"
"What did you do today?"
But if questions are difficult for your child, they can start to feel like a test.
Try commenting instead.
Instead of:
"What color is the car?"
Try:
"Red car!"
Instead of:
"What are you doing?"
Try:
"You're pushing the car!"
You're still giving them language.
You're just taking away the pressure to come up with the answer.
Have you noticed your child communicates differently when you comment instead of question?