06/24/2026
You don’t struggle with boundaries because you’re unclear.
You struggle because your role changed—but your patterns didn’t.
I remember working with a leader who had just been promoted. She told me, “My team isn’t respecting deadlines anymore.” But as we talked, it became clear—she was still relating to them like peers.
Grabbing lunch. Letting things slide. Avoiding direct conversations.
You may think you're being approachable.
But your team experiences inconsistency.
When expectations aren’t clearly reinforced, people default to what feels comfortable—not what’s required.
This isn’t about authority.
It’s about alignment.
When you step into a new level, your communication, your time, and your standards have to shift with you.
Not because you’ve changed as a person—but because your responsibility has.
Boundaries aren’t distance.
They’re clarity.
Where in your leadership are you still operating from your old role?