07/18/2026
First off, thank you all so much for the prayers. 🙏 It has been an absolute roller coaster of a week and a half with our sweet little fighter, Oakie Jo.
What we originally thought was just a typical "chemo rash" started to change. I took her in to have it checked, went home, and followed the recommendations we were given—but it only got worse. Every day the rash spread more, became increasingly red, inflamed, and incredibly painful. Hearing our sweet girl beg me to "stop the owies" and the itching absolutely broke my heart.
I took her back several more times and was repeatedly told it was just a chemo rash made worse by the extreme heat. Deep down, this mama knew something wasn't right. (I'm not a doctor...yet. 😉) We were told to see a dermatologist, but I couldn't find a single opening before the fall.
On Wednesday, we finally saw an absolute angel of a doctor. She agreed that the rash didn't look right. She wasn't sure exactly what it was, but she immediately took it seriously. She did a culture, started Oakie on antibiotics because of her weekly chemo, and personally called a dermatologist to get her seen as soon as possible.
Thursday morning, after less than 24 hours on antibiotics, we finally saw some improvement. Then that same wonderful doctor called with the culture results: Oakie had a pretty severe staph infection. 😳 She told us she was so thankful we had already started antibiotics because, with how weakened Oakie's little body/system is from chemo, she could have become septic very quickly.
Today we saw the dermatologist, and while the infection is still serious, she said it's responding well to the antibiotics. She also told us she was so thankful she got to meet Oakie in the clinic instead of in a hospital bed because if we had waited even another day or two, things could have been much, much worse.
I have a lot of thoughts about some of the appointments we had over the past week, but today I'm choosing gratitude. I'm thankful I trusted my mama instincts, thankful for the doctors who truly listened, and most of all, thankful that our sweet girl is safe.
Unfortunately, because of the infection, we do have to temporarily pause her chemo until she is completely healed. While it's disappointing to hit this bump in the road, we know it's the safest thing for her right now.
Please continue praying for our little fighter—that this infection clears quickly, her body heals completely, and she's able to restart chemo smoothly and successfully. Thank you all for loving on Oakie Jo, praying for her, and walking this journey with our family. We appreciate every single one of you more than you'll ever know. 💛🩶🙏
Enjoy a few pics from her appointment today 🥰 cant go to Children's hospital without stopping at the gift shop for some new treasures 🙃