09/21/2026
“Jewelle I hate to tell you but I’m going to be the one person this won’t work for. But I’ve tried everything else, so…. Let’s do it.“
80% of my clients have said this or something close to it before we get started.
I would too. So many people out there selling and talking and making promises they can, at best, keep about half of.
Every time I go online, I’m hit with opinions and thoughts and yup, sales.
It’s not really as fun as it used to be …. In my opinion.
Anyway, back to what happens within a week of the above statement - usually followed with “don’t take it personally”
And I don’t 🙂
So, this same beautiful soul, who was so entrenched in depression and feeling trapped in a life she hadn’t chosen
(What that looked like for her -> she had placed her laptop and desk as close to her bed as she could, because getting out of bed was that hard. This way she only had a few steps to get there.
She wasn’t connecting with her kids the way she ached to.
… more that I won’t share here. You get the picture. )
My heart broke for her.
There’s only so much I can do for someone until they say yes.
We need the yes.
(I know that’s so scary on so many different levels)
We had our first session.
(I have a sequence I enter into that allows me to meet people where they are. It’s a sequence, not a made-for-all program:
We sit together and we ‘get to work’.)
1. Identify what is and isn’t working for you right now
2. We begin gently but with proven processes with results that show themselves within a week
3. We don’t just talk, although that’s a part of it (that only takes us so far - trauma is stored in the body)
4. We build a step by step daily strategy based on what works for you.
5. You guessed it, saying yes means saying yes every day - to yourself and your future - what a great life habit to build.
6. Over the 8 weeks we heal from trauma, neglect, abuse, emotional manipulation, toxic relationships.
AND usually there’s a trauma bond that’s keeping you hostage.
Most women are ready to break those chains by week 4 or 5.
7. When you’re ready, we reverse engineer goals into easy to manage steps.
(A few results we’ve had over the years include: New house, new job, new relationship, new marriage, new baby … )
I call our time “sacred healing sessions” - because the process of moving from not being able to sleep or get out of bed, while you helplessly watch your life disintegrate,
to a life so much closer to where you want to be, is, to me, sacred.
It’s not magic, it’s not spiritually bypassing or hiding from the heavy stuff.
These are steps we take that need to happen in specific sequence to prepare you and your nervous system for each step we take.
How did I create this system? I lived it.
There is no book out there that can teach this. No ‘one thing’ we can do.
I struggled and begged the divine for help one moment at a time.
For the courage to breathe one more time,
for the strength to get out of bed,
for the desire to stay and fight through it.
I found that tiny, flickering flame within, and chose to first
Protect it
then
Nurture it
and now
Share it. (It’s been almost 9 years now…)
But none of that happens until you say yes.
I can only do so much with inspiration and love …. No one can do this for you.
We CAN do it together. As soon as you say yes.
Sending love and courage,
💜Jewelle
Send me a dm if this is tugging at you.
I’m here and check in to my inbox daily.
Ready to say Yes
And let’s connect.
