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Readings by the River QHHT practitioner L2, tarot reader for 25+ years, Reiki Master, Soul Speak certified Terry Yohnka has had an interest in new age topics for more than 50 years.

She does private and small group tarot readings by appointment.

Some time ago I tried to put together a group hypnosis exercise, but it never came together. So I’m trying again. 😊 It u...
09/25/2026

Some time ago I tried to put together a group hypnosis exercise, but it never came together. So I’m trying again. 😊 It uses a light state of hypnosis and can be done in person or via video call. It takes 1-1.5 hours. Would any of my friends like to put together a small group to try this?

It’s a freebie that keeps me sharp and gives you an idea of what hypnosis is really like. (It’s not what you see in most movies!)

Maybe easier said than done, but worth the effort.
09/22/2026

Maybe easier said than done, but worth the effort.

Stop taking everything personally. People’s actions often reflect their inner struggles, not your worth. You don’t need to absorb every opinion, criticism, or negative mood. Protect your peace, let go of what you cannot control, and choose inner freedom.

What a wonderfully clear explanation of our souls’ journeys.
09/19/2026

What a wonderfully clear explanation of our souls’ journeys.

✨One of the most important questions human beings have been asking themselves for thousands of years is: Who am I really?

Most people identify themselves with their body, personality, memories, or name. They say, “I am a doctor,” “I am a father,” “I am a woman,” or “I am American .” Yet from the perspective of many spiritual teachings, these are simply temporary roles we take on for one lifetime.

When the body dies, all of these labels lose their meaning, but consciousness continues.

This leads to another question: If we are not the body, then who are we?

The answer that appears, surprisingly, across many independent spiritual sources is very similar. A human being is not made up only of a body and a soul. There is an even deeper level of our existence: the spirit.

Understanding the difference between the soul and the spirit can help us understand reincarnation, the evolution of consciousness, and the very nature of our existence.

The highest level of our nature is the Spirit - Higher Self. It is our original, immortal consciousness, coming directly from Source, God, or Universal Intelligence. The name we use is not really important.

The spirit is not born and does not die. It has no age, gender, nationality, or physical appearance. It was never a child and will never grow old. It exists beyond time and space, carrying the full memory of its evolution.

This is who we truly are, although during our lives on Earth we almost completely forget it.

Many spiritual teachings describe a fascinating concept: the entire spirit rarely incarnates into the physical world all at once. Instead, it sends only a part of its consciousness into a particular lifetime.

You could compare it to a huge tree from which a single branch grows. The branch has its own experiences and develops independently, but it never stops being part of the whole tree.

In a similar way, the soul remains deeply and inseparably connected to the spirit.

The soul is therefore an individual expression of the spirit. It enters the physical world, experiences different bodies and lifetimes, and gathers the experiences needed for its continued growth.

You could say that the spirit is the observer of the entire journey, while the soul is the traveler.

The soul is what creates our personality for a particular incarnation. It experiences emotions, makes decisions, and learns about love, forgiveness, courage, humility, and many other aspects of existence.

Every lifetime leaves a lasting imprint on the soul, and those experiences remain with it even after the physical body dies.

This is why many people who have had near-death experiences or deep hypnotic experiences describe themselves as still being the same person they were during their physical life, even though they no longer have a physical body.

They retain memories, a sense of identity, and an awareness of their personal history.

It is the soul that carries these experiences forward.

According to many accounts, life on Earth is not a random event.

Before beginning another incarnation, the soul goes through a process of preparation. Experiences from previous lifetimes are reviewed, important lessons are chosen, and relationships and circumstances are considered that may create the right conditions for further growth.

This does not necessarily mean that every detail of our life has been programmed in advance.

It may be more helpful to think of it as a travel plan.

The destination may be known, and certain important places may have been chosen to visit, but how we get there depends on the choices we make along the way.

Free will remains one of the most important principles of existence. It is precisely because we have the freedom to choose that our experiences have real meaning.

Birth, therefore, does not mean that a completely new consciousness has been created. It is simply the moment when the soul connects with a developing biological body.

The body can be thought of as an incredibly sophisticated biological suit that allows consciousness to function within the physical world.

It is limited by the laws of physics. It ages, becomes ill, and eventually dies.

The soul simply uses the body as its vehicle.

At the moment of death, the soul does not cease to exist. It separates from the body, much like taking off your clothes at the end of the day.

This may be why so many people who have experienced clinical death describe an overwhelming feeling of relief, lightness, peace, and returning home.

The heaviness of the physical body disappears, and consciousness remains.

After leaving the physical world, a process often described as a life review begins.

Contrary to many religious ideas, this is not necessarily like a courtroom where someone judges us and decides our punishment or reward.

There is no one handing out punishments or rewards.

Instead, the soul experiences its entire life from a much broader perspective than the one it had while living on Earth.

It sees events in a much deeper way. It understands its own motivations as well as the motivations of other people. It can experience the emotions of those it encountered.

If it caused someone pain, it experiences that pain.

If it helped someone, it can also experience the positive impact of its actions.

This is not punishment. It is a process of deep understanding.

Through this understanding, consciousness continues to grow.

After this stage, the soul returns to a reality that many describe as their true home.

There, it encounters other souls belonging to the same developmental group.

Many accounts suggest that we have been traveling through different lifetimes alongside the same consciousnesses for a very long time.

Our roles may change from one lifetime to another.

The person who is our father today may once have been our child. Our current partner may once have been a friend or even an adversary. And someone we consider our greatest enemy may turn out to be a soul that agreed to play a difficult role simply to help us develop certain qualities.

From the human perspective, this can be difficult to understand or accept.

But from the perspective of the soul, life may look completely different.

It is not comfort that matters most. It is growth.

There is, however, another very important part of this picture.

The soul is not the end of our evolution.

Beyond the soul is the spirit, a much greater consciousness with which the soul remains connected at all times.

Some people describe this as the Higher Self, while others call it the Oversoul or Higher Consciousness.

You can imagine our current personality as just a small part of a much greater intelligence that exists beyond time.

This may be why so many people who have profound mystical experiences describe the feeling of remembering something they somehow always knew.

They did not necessarily gain completely new knowledge.

Instead, they temporarily reconnected with their own spirit.

When we look at the human experience this way, a very simple model begins to emerge.

At the highest level is Source, the infinite intelligence from which everything originates.

From Source emerge spirits, individual expressions or sparks of consciousness.

The spirit expresses itself through the soul, and the soul uses the mind and body to experience the physical world.

The body is therefore simply the outermost layer of this entire structure.

It is a tool, not our true identity.

The mind helps us function within physical reality. The soul gathers experiences. And the spirit holds the greater awareness and guides the entire process of evolution.

Perhaps this is why, after deep spiritual experiences, so many people stop asking:

“What can I gain in this lifetime?”

And instead begin asking:

“What did my soul come here to learn?”

At that point, the way we see everything can begin to change.

Difficult experiences are no longer seen only as misfortune. They can also become opportunities for learning.

Relationships stop feeling like random encounters and begin to have a deeper meaning.

Death no longer represents the end, but becomes a transition into another stage of the journey.

From this perspective, we are not physical beings who occasionally have spiritual experiences.

We are eternal spirits who, through the soul, experience a temporary human life in order to gradually discover ourselves, expand our awareness, and return to the fullness of consciousness from which we originally emerged.🩵

09/18/2026

One day, you’ll realize how much of your life was spent worrying about things that never deserved your peace. Not every problem needs your attention. Not every thought needs to be believed. Save your energy for what truly matters, and let the rest pass.

I see this happening so often! Parents want to save their children from the hard lessons. Lovers want to save their part...
09/18/2026

I see this happening so often! Parents want to save their children from the hard lessons. Lovers want to save their partners from themselves. But interference doesn’t do those things. It only delays the lessons.

I’ve been thinking about what happens when two souls are vibrating at very different levels.

A higher vibrating soul (not meant to imply hierarchy but I am unable to explain it better at the moment) can lower its vibration to meet someone where they are. We can understand their fears, their wounds, their anger and the lessons they’re still working through because chances are, we’ve been there ourselves.

But a lower vibrating soul cannot simply rise into a higher vibration and stay there because they love someone who is already there. They may feel that vibration. They may be drawn to it. They may even recognize something in it that their soul wants. But they still have to learn the lessons that allow them to hold that vibration for themselves.

This is where relationships can become exhausting.

We keep going back down because we love someone. We explain ourselves again. We forgive again. We make excuses again. We tell ourselves we’re being compassionate when sometimes we’re actually making it easier for someone to avoid the lesson their soul is trying to learn.

You cannot learn someone else’s lesson for them. You cannot love them into consciousness or carry them into a level of awareness they haven’t grown into yet.

And that doesn’t make one soul better than another. We have all been the soul who didn’t see it yet. We’ve all repeated lessons until we finally understood what life was trying to show us.

But once you’ve learned the lesson, you don’t have to keep living inside it because someone you love hasn’t learned theirs.

You can love someone without joining them in every lesson. You can understand them without making their behavior acceptable in your life. You can reach down without climbing back into the hole.

Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is stop interfering with another soul’s lessons and allow them to experience what their choices create.

Your vibration can be an invitation. Your growth can show them what is possible.

But if they are meant to meet you there, they have to do their own climbing.

You cannot do their rising for them.

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Love y'all,
- Lori 💗

09/12/2026

These are all good, but I think 6 is my favorite.

08/13/2026

I agree with all of this, and have for a very long time. Sometimes it’s hard for me to remember that not everyone believes in reincarnation. It has always made so much sense to me: Earth is a school; we choose all the elements of our life to help us learn. It makes everything make more sense to me.

Simple changes to your life.
07/31/2026

Simple changes to your life.

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