05/06/2026
Love this. As a student of this every growing industry and the rabbit hole that is equine therapy. You never stop learning. No questions are "stupid questions". If you are willing to ask the question you are willing to learn. Reason I love my clients asking all the questions! If you ever think you know it all. Well I always use the saying, "Then it is time to hang your spurs up." 🤓
When learning we often have the expression of huh!!!🧐.
I remember my first anatomy and palpation class, there I was freshly qualified, pretty smug that I now possessed magic hands and could heal the world, mollycoddled in an enviroment of well done, you rock, and lots of ego smoothing surrounded by others who also possessed the magic in their hands all of us on the same level.
Until I went to that class, where i slowly realised I knew Jack sh*t😆, "point out so and so" came a voice across the room, honestly i was looking out the window at that point, but as heads turned towards me I thought wtf I have no clue, arghhh all those moments in school where I hadn't paid attention came flooding back, I looked at my hands, feeling like if I just held them up like jazz hands they might see the magic I felt yet looking around i realised I would look slightly wierd 😅.
So what did I do, i simply said "I dont know, can you explain it" and the tutor almost had a look of surprise then glee as she could talk about a subject she was passionate about, and I would be the willing victim.
For good tutors want to educate not embarrass the student, and good students ask questions in order to learn.
Now I never use to ask, I carry other people's words along time, I mull over them, I always see criticism even if is a compliment, when I was in college at the age of 19 I asked a question and was reprimanded 37 years later I still remember it and how it made me feel.
I asked what the bony growth coming from the fetlock was and a booming voice came across the room "An ergot, you stupid girl". I never asked another question again during that course and walked away with top marks simply to prove her wrong, yet the lesson i learned was I never wanted to be the person that made others feel inadequate simply because they wanted to learn.
Its why I share so much, why I do things in a different way, because I want to reach that person like me who became afraid to ask.
Recognising your weakness when it comes to knowledge means you can change your approach and make it your strength, even stopping something is not a failure because trying to be something you cant doesn't mean you cannot be something else and excel in it.
The stuff I share with you is often not what I learned, and yes I make mistakes but to acknowledge them means you can move on and learn more.
So if you are just about to embark on a new course and you feel stupid because you don't know, its ok its the reason why we choose a course is because we are there to learn, you know good tutors thrive on questions, and a good tutor will cater for the eclectic bunch of students sat quiet, heads full of questions but arms full of lead because you dont want to raise your hand, get it raised ask the question, for if you do you will come out of class with a little more knowledge.
And if someone doesn't know what an ergot is, be careful with your reply as you may be setting them up to carry that criticism for the next 37 years ☺️