04/30/2026
you know you’ve done it. scrolled back to an old photo and thought “why didn’t I appreciate that body?” “I looked so good back then, how did I not see it?”
but here’s what I want you to actually think about - were you happy then? like, genuinely happy?
or were you still picking yourself apart. still waiting to feel thin enough, small enough, good enough before you let yourself enjoy your life. even if you actually did think you liked your body then, were you truly happy?
because most of the time, when I talk to clients about this, they weren’t happy then either. they thought they looked fat. they thought they looked gross. they were still waiting, just like they are now.
and that’s the thing nobody talks about. it’s not about the body. it never was.
what you’re chasing is a feeling. acceptance. love. the sense that you are finally enough. and somewhere along the way, your brain decided that feeling lived in a smaller body and that was the only way to accomplish that feeling.
but it doesn’t work that way. because if it did, you would have felt it then, in that moment, not just when you are looking back with rose colored glasses.
the body you’re in right now? future you is going to look back at it the same way. so what if you stopped waiting for your body to get smaller and started feeling enough right now.
if this resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it today.