09/10/2021
Did I catch your attention with this picture? Good. As I need to vent…
(And for those of you who are wondering what the f.. is sitting on my head: it’s a monitor for a sleep study. But that’s not the point here.)
The other day some petty cash was stolen from both of our cars, right in front of our house. We’ve lived here for more than 12 years and have never locked our cars, and have never had any issues.
I wasn’t upset about the coins, but I did feel upset about the fact that apparently we don’t live in a “safe neighborhood” anymore.
In the little town we live we have a Facebook group in which residents share information and questions about local events and issues. I don’t do Facebook anymore (and I’m painfully reminded why…), but I posted in this group what had happened and asked if anyone else has had this experience.
You wouldn’t believe the 45+ comments I got….
Instead of showing any kind of compassion (again, I’m not bothered by the loss of the coins, but some stranger DID get in our cars uninvited!), or acknowledgement that it’s sad our little town is changing so much, this is what I got:
“Lock.Your.Car. Stupid!”
WTF?! Really?! Is this what has come from the world?! That we’re blaming the “victim” for the injustice (or worse) that’s been done onto them? That’s like saying to a girl who got r***d: “Well, you shouldn’t have worn such a short skirt.”
Of course, I understand that loosing some cash from your car is nothing compared to being r***d. But the concept is the same here: blaming the victim instead of looking at what’s wrong in the world and doing something about it.
And yes, I also know that I’m a white privileged woman, and that these things happen all the time, especially to people that identify as bipoc. That’s how messed up our world has become.
Can we all come back to remembering our inherent interconnectedness? Can we all return to decency, and respect for one another? That would be great.
Ps. I hope the person who got our cash bought themselves something they really needed (not wanted).
Ps. 2. If you’re reading this on Facebook it is because Instagram automatically posts on Facebook. I won’t be reading your comments though….