02/09/2026
The night before the first day of school has its own particular feeling, and it is not quite anxiety, not quite excitement, and not quite dread.
It is something in between, and it shows up every single year even for people who are not technically in school anymore.
That feeling is worth paying attention to, because it is usually not about tomorrow.
It is about every version of tomorrow that felt uncertain before this one.
The body has a long memory.
When the back-to-school feeling hits, it is often carrying years of first days, not knowing where to sit, and hoping this year would be different.
If your teenager is struggling tonight, they do not need a pep talk.
They probably just need someone to sit with them in it for a minute before they have to be ready.
If anxiety around school transitions has become something more than manageable, you can reach out to us at journeylifebalance.com/contact and we will help you figure out the next step.