Flannel People Mediation

Flannel People Mediation Divorce? Relationship drama? Big conversations? We got you. Free consult! Text “FLANNEL” to 763-316-8323.

Flannel People Mediation brings no-BS divorce mediation, couples conflict coaching, and more—virtual, down-to-earth, and built for real people.

07/02/2026

Co-founder mediation! Family business mediation! At its core, each is a “divorce mediation” with unmarried participants (though sometimes they actually are married). With 10,000 boomer retiring each day, this is a HUGE market and I’m happy to be serving folks in this way.

06/28/2026

Why you should just try building stuff

06/24/2026

I’ve upped our referral fee from $100 to $250.

I may do $500.

Early stage growth requires generosity.

donkeydesk.com/referral/

Two 25-pound dumbbells on my lap.One on each leg.Every time the AI pauses to think, I press. Ten to twenty reps. Legs li...
06/22/2026

Two 25-pound dumbbells on my lap.
One on each leg.

Every time the AI pauses to think, I press. Ten to twenty reps. Legs lifted if I want the core in it too.

This morning was admin. The boring, grinding kind. Onboarding paperwork. 401(k) contributions. We moved the HSA into QQQ and VTI.

I have two businesses. One sits with people inside the hardest conversations of their lives and helps them hear what they’ve been missing. The other finds small business owners tools they didn’t know existed and builds the workflows that actually run.

Different work. Same obsession.

Nine weeks ago a surgeon inserted cadaver cartilage into my ankle. Cleaned out the damage, spun in blood plasma, sealed it up. Six weeks of no weight on it.

I went to a dance performance during that time. On a scooter.

I watched my whole community move from a seat I didn’t choose. The floor looked different from down there. So did the people on it.

Tonight I go back. Standing person. Bare feet on the floor.

06/19/2026

What organizations can teach couples and co-parents about conflict management

06/18/2026

You’ve been told AI will save you hours a week. Probably more than once this year. It’s a general claim, and general claims slide right off.

Here’s a specific one.

Two automations: a morning briefing that pulls your calendar, email, and Slack into one summary at 7:30, and an inbox triage that drafts your urgent replies. Set up once. Running every weekday.

Will that save you 5 hours a week? Depends on your volume — so I’m not going to assert it. I’m going to guarantee it. If it doesn’t clear 5 hours a week in 30 days, you email me and get every penny back.

19-minute live build, this Thursday. $97. [email protected] if you’ve got questions first.
https://donkeydesk.com/ai-exec-assistant/

06/02/2026

My mediation philosophy in a nutshell.

06/02/2026

In family law, mediators and lawyers can co-exist 💛

05/25/2026

If you’re running a business and drowning in plates —

This is for you.

Not a YouTube video. Not a podcast.

Actual builds. Actual systems. Actual time back.

I started donkeydesk.com for business owners who want to use AI but don’t just want to learn about it.

They want it installed.

Two ways I can help:

AI Audit — we map every repeating task in your business and identify exactly where AI can replace you. One session. Clear deliverable.

AI Concierge — ongoing. Two strategy calls a month. Hands-on builds. Unlimited Voxer. Notion workspace tracking everything we make together.

Both are worth it. Depending on where you are.

But even if you’re not ready to hire anyone —

Follow along.

I’m building this live. Sharing everything I make. Documenting every system I install in my own business.

Steal what works. Apply it yourself.

That’s the whole point.

donkeydesk.com if you’re ready.

DM me if you have questions.

05/25/2026

If you’re using AI tools to run your business, this is your insurance policy.

Claude. ChatGPT. Gemini. Codex. Claude Code.

You’re probably jumping between all of them.

The problem: every time you switch, you start from zero.

The fix: markdown files.

One file per skill. One file per context. A transferable second brain that any model can read.

I built this for Flannel People Mediation.

The_flannel_bible. What_we_sell. Who_we_help. How_ryan_sounds. Where_we_show_up. Whats_on_fire.

Now it doesn’t matter which platform I’m on.

The context travels with me.

Switch models tomorrow. Your agents still know who you are, what you sell, and how you sound.

This is exactly what I help small business owners build at donkeydesk.com.

DM me if you want one.

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