06/11/2026
Why is confidence so hard to find when your inner critic is running the show?
Because your inner critic has access to all your "secret files."
It remembers every mistake, regret, insecurity, and so on. It knows all the parts of you that you try to hide from others. So since it solely focuses on what's wrong, it easily convinces you that these secret files are the whole story.
Self compassion offers a more complete picture. The inner critic and its secret files don't have to define us.
✨ If you're a mom and you'd like to learn more about practicing self compassion, comment GROW and I'll send you information about & I's upcoming in-person workshop. Check out our last Reel for a chance to win a free spot through the raffle too.
🎨 If you'd like information about the Creative Compassion Group (for moms and non-moms), comment GROUP and I'll send you the details. It's an 8-week group where we'll explore mindfulness and self compassion skills to soften self criticism through reflection, and art.
What "evidence" does your inner critic keep bringing up about you?