07/15/2026
Nobody tells you about the second year of grief.
In the first year of losing a loved one, people show up. They bring food, they send messages asking how you're doing. There are hard grief milestones to move through - the first holidays, birthdays, anniversaries. Somehow the structure of the significant days keeps you moving with something to look forward to.
By the second year, the checking in slows down. The world moves on and assumes you're okay. And sometimes the grief hits harder than it did in month two, because now you're navigating that loss quietly, and often in silence.
If you're somewhere in that grief journey right now, whether it's been 3 months or 3 years since losing someone you loved deeply, you don't have to carry it alone.
Grief support doesn't have a deadline.
At Doctor's Hospice of Idaho, our bereavement team provides grief support and bereavement resources to Treasure Valley families for 13 months after a loved one passes, because we understand the impacts of year 2, and grief doesn't follow a schedule.