Chartology

03/28/2023

Mom screams = Mom doesn't love me.
Are you ready to accept this fact❓
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Because that's what your child thinks at the moment when your reproach or remark is heard like thunder in the room.
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You raise your voice because you can't handle your emotions.
Anger comes out of you. The reason for it may not be your child at all, but it is easiest to dump all your accumulated feelings on him defenseless 💥

❓What to do with it?
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💢 Learn to accept your emotions, voice them and apologize. Even if you've already yelled, try saying, “I'm sorry, I shouldn't have yelled at you. You did not do well, but shouting will not solve the situation.”
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💢 Anger is the strongest flow of energy, try to direct it in an effective way.
The best use of inner strength is physical activity 💪

💢 Learn to feel, and track your condition.
Ask yourself questions: Did I really have a reason to cry? Why did I become aggressive? Contact with yourself is the first step toward the development of emotional intelligence.

💢Translate to the game.
If you get angry, become a villain from a fairy tale. Instead of shouting, say: “I'll catch up with you”, or “I'll eat you now!”. The child will not be afraid, you will switch your focus of attention.

📍By the psychomatrix it is easy to determine which mothers yell at their children more often. The top ranking is occupied by the owners of a strong sector of health and logic. The manifestation of aggression is always the result of the lack of implementation of these indicators.
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📍And even if you know that you are yelling at children. You want to make a difference. But often there is a door in front of you with a sign “I don’t know what to do” - analysis of the psychomatrix by date of birth will help you understand how to act

Are you yelling at your children ❓
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You can ask questions in the comments.

03/27/2023

Phones, tablets, laptops, social media networks, and games - we seem to live in a matrix.
It is difficult to escape from this, but you can learn to manage for yourself and your children.
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A child who spends more time online does not develop the skill of communicating in the real world. He understands strategies, managing heroes, and passing difficult levels. But when he leaves the house, he finds out that the game goes by completely different rules.
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A teenager who spends several hours a day at a computer is at an increased risk of Alzheimer's disease in the future. The result will not be instant, so most parents will not pay attention to personality regression until it is quite late.

But what about the many educational applications for attention, reading, addition, subtraction, and more?
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They interact with only one part of the brain, but without training, there are areas that are responsible for speech and emotions. Thus, the child develops logical thinking, but at the same time, he is completely incapable of accumulating experience and verbal communication.
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I understand perfectly well that you cannot completely exclude gadgets from your life, but try to realize the importance of this issue. Whether your child is 3, 7, or 13 years old, you can still make things right. And I will help you with this.

📍We ourselves are online for hours, it’s so beautiful, interesting, and fun there. In the beginning, children distract us from watching endless videos, and then they do exactly the same as we do.
And who else should they take an example from?

📍We don't know how to play with children if we can't use gadgets. It is important for a child to have attention, to have some common interests, and to do something together.

How addicted are you and your children to gadgets❓
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03/27/2023

From children's advertising to one of the most popular actresses of 2022! What's the secret behind Jenna Ortega as Wednesday Addams?
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10 facts about the actress by her matrix
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⭐1. The simpler her clothes, the better. It's not necessarily black, the style is unisex, and boyfriend is her way of dressing
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⭐2. Appreciates teamwork, family comfort, and traditions. She is not an individualist, unlike her heroine.
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⭐3. However, she is not afraid to be alone, she easily goes into her thoughts and hides herself in a wave of suffering. By the way, it is at these moments that it is better not to be next to her.

⭐4. There is a bit of black magic in her 😉 This "witch" will look young before retirement, and after it too
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⭐5. They say she, like Wednesday, does not like social networks. This is because when you enter their world, hours fly by like seconds. And she knows how bad it can be. It's better to work
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⭐6. He cares first about everyone, again about them, and then too. He thinks about himself only if it is related to work.
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⭐7. The famous dance that she herself invented is the “plasticity and gracefulness” of the Beta female, but 100% ability to get into trends. Michael Jackson did the same

⭐8. If Wednesday is more silent, then Jenna loves to talk, often does it before she thinks. But if you don't like her words, that's your problem.
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⭐9. Jenna is very gullible, which is why she often feels disappointed
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⭐10. In addition to Wednesday, she starred in several horror films, because there you can be special, not like everyone else.

Now the global trend is through magical realism films like Wednesday, Harry Potter, Spiderman, and Iron Man, to promote the idea of ​​superpowers and people striving to be special.
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Only you, my numerologists, know that you and I are realizing this dream of being a real magician in real conditions. Because numerology is a magical realism in which we work miracles. Without knowing anything really about a person, sometimes without even seeing him in person, we create a miracle, because we know everything about him 😉

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03/27/2023

The topic is as relevant as ever...
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‼Again about the sector of interest 3/empty.
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I don't want to write long introductions. Below are a few reasons why your child 👧🏻👦🏼 is not interested in anything ❌:

✅1. Sector debt 88/888; your logic is 5/55.
You impose your interest on him or choose what will be demanded by him - your responsibility.
Accordingly, you choose what is characteristic of your picture of the world. Sometimes the dominant/custodial parent does not hear at all 🙉 the needs of the child or ignores or devalues ​​his tastes 😕
Our children should not be interested in the same things that we are☝
First, change your attitude towards it, and then observe what brings true joy 😃

✅2. Don't discount.
Billy Eilish, LJ, of course, outcasts, but we had both Kurt Cobain and Merlin Manson and nothing. The same goes for other hobbies.
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I know one family where the boy has a poetic talent📝... but no one is happy...😢

✅3. Sometimes parents raise the bar too fast 🔝Higher, stronger, faster. Along with the loss of self-esteem, interest also suffers.
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✅4. Supply creates demand.
The higher the supply, the lower the demand. The more options you give, the less desire to do anything.
Let's go back to point 1 again. You can kill the desire to be interested when you realize what you lacked as a child. It seems to you that if you were interested in it 🤓, then he will be too. Not a fact❗
A real impulse must be born inside the system💫 and then it is sincere and for a long time.

✅5. Common interests live longer.
If they are really common 🤝 Read the same books 📚, look 🧐 for new perspectives on the subject.
If you are also interested in football ⚽, if you can be told about the new Marvel heroes ‍♀, if you are interested in technology 🤖- there are more chances to continue your hobby.
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Why are we so afraid sometimes that children can be smarter. I ask my son to teach me something. True, recently I was diagnosed with a "small brain", but I do not pretend to be big 🧠 if only I had one.
Even if you are not in the subject, find out together. Find out and tell each other news about discoveries in common hobbies 😉

Do you find it difficult to accept your children's hobbies? Or are you on the same wavelength and up to date with current trends?

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03/26/2023

Anxious Mom... my mom is anxious and that's what I struggle with in myself to this day...
Let's talk about motherhood in the sector of interest 3 / empty
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👆 Anxiety is not fear itself, it is a feeling of expectation of fear.

Why is such a strategy dangerous when your fears sound like a program?
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💢1. Our children-2000 are afraid of everything without your fear 🙀
And when you report that there are only dangers in the world, the space narrows, the chance of success decreases, only the fear of error remains, without hope. There are risks of locking a person in a small world and never giving him a chance for freedom. "Localize" it! The world does not equal danger! Do not hide the truth, there is danger in the world, but it is not total.

Giever Tully wrote the book 📗 50 Dangerous Things You Should Allow Your Child.
The book contains not only good, but also stupid advice. But it is important for you to make a general sense - do not hide the danger from the child, teach how to manage it 💪
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💢2. Mom was so afraid and worried that fear did not allow her to understand how important discos are for a teenager and a young man 💃🕺🏻

I missed almost all discos, I went only to school ones, summer ones did not concern me. I do not dance, this desire and skill must be restored now.
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A girl needs a dance, especially with a low temperament. Not a dance for the sake of dancing, but a dance for the development of self-esteem. I'm still dancing like a robot 😂 step to the left, step to the right, swoop.

💢3. You are the guarantor of safety.
If you are anxious about everything in the world, how to trust life and feel safe? As a consequence, your confidence is your child's confidence in the face of uncertainty.
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💢4. Children of anxious parents subsequently look for anxious partners, believing that anxiety = care.
But there are partners without anxiety, for example at 33/333 and the family is 1/2/empty. There are many claims to such a partner, such as: “you don’t love me”! 💔

💢5. The parent's fear at 3/empty tends to be discounted.
I know many such cases when parents devalued a child's talent for fear of letting him go to another city 😔 Some talent tried to look at such rooms, but some did not...
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💢6. You are an authority ⭐ and therefore do not form the child the same view of the subject as you yourself 🙅‍♀ Then there will be a lot of work.

💢7. I have a lot of anxiety, I'm working on it. I know that sometimes anxiety is justified, and sometimes not. I wrote you something important today ❤
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Don't be afraid, we can handle it 💋

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03/26/2023

An amazing observation: what infuriates us in partners is what we initially singled out as what “hooked” us in a partner.
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Why is this happening?
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As a rule, this is an outstanding feature:
✅ emotionality
✅ intelligence
✅ courage
✅ modesty
etc.

Champions 🏆 in this sport are still strong logic 5/55/555.
In second place is a strong family 5/6/7
On the third - individual situations.
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Who potentially infuriates each other as a couple❓

📌1. Low initiative in one partner versus high initiative (family 4/5/6).
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For one partner, the actions of the other are always not enough, for the other - too much.
One is infuriated by indifference, the other by control and participation in everything. Ease of being for one and protocol 📝 with rules for the other.
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How to regulate❓

Assess the benefits 👍 of a partner. Without false modesty, take a sheet and paper, sit down and write them down ✍ A low-initiative partner gives more freedom, and a highly-initiative one can become a real locomotive in your development and achievements, if you value it that way! If not, it will infuriate, because it climbs everywhere.

📌2. Logic is empty VS logic 5/55/555.
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The conflict zone is not only in a couple, but also in other relationships.
In such situations, I, as an expert, always take the side of the empty logic sector, because the superiority of strong logic is greatly exaggerated by us, logicians, and we are often silent that we suffer a lot from our own mind, sleep badly, rage for no reason, overeat 🍔

Partners with a strong logic feel their potential and are happy to be in trend, as today intelligence is highlighted as an outstanding quality.
But ❗ Never, you hear, never consider only strong logic as a fulcrum in the definition of intelligence - this is not so!
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A partner with strong logic is infuriated by the habit of the sector of logic is empty - to do something on the second attempt (at best), but behind this conflict of two systems of thinking lies the following:
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〰 a partner with logic is empty can then give ideas without boundaries and frames;
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〰 he is honest and open;
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〰 he will forgive you for your mistakes (unlike you if your logic is 5/55/555)

When you know what exactly gives you the lack of a partner, which can be an irritant. When you see what he gives you - aggression is reduced.
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Who infuriates you from bloggers besides me?😂😂😂

❗Under this then you can ask your questions in the comments

03/25/2023

Children's lies - malicious intent or bad upbringing, or maybe something else?
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Today we’ll talk about why and which children lie, and what we parents should do about it.
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🧠 The logic is empty - in this case, parents often confuse fantasies with lies, but here the child is really a dreamer. It's just that at an early age, children are not always able to distinguish their fictional worlds from real ones.

🧠 Energy 22/222 and more in combination with empty logic only enhances the effect. In no case do not hold back the conversations of such a child, find an opportunity for ideas to be realized, for example, through creativity.
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At the same time, the combination of logic 5/55 + luck 7/77 + debt 8/empty really attracts attention. Why? Read 👇🏻

🧠 Logic 5/55 - your child's brain works fast and multifaceted. The deception of the child is most often provoked by the lack of a healthy implementation of the indicator. When logic has no work to do, it starts to analyze, look for multiple implementations of situations, and then tries. And the parents, in this case, are the test subjects.

🧠 Luck 7/77 - the owners of this indicator are easier than others to read people's reactions. First they gain experience, and then they begin to use it. Here is a child with such an indicator, if the mother did not allow sweets, without thinking twice, she goes to her grandmother. If he knows that he will be scolded for something, then he will intuitively avoid it. Just a child knows how to get what he wants 😉

🧠 Debt 8/empty - in moments of danger or under pressure from parents, a completely natural reaction for such a coefficient is triggered - denial or blame of circumstances 🙈 reasons why it's not his fault. If you want to receive the truth in return, give your child a guarantee that punishment will not follow.

Trust is not a given, but a merit. The more honest you are, the more respect in your relationship, the more honest your child will be with you. It makes no sense for him to lie if he knows that with any truth he can come home and feel safe.
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❓Do your children lie to you or fantasize? What are the most amazing cases of childish deceit that you remember?

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03/25/2023

Do you know guilt without crime❓ Why does it arise❓
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I already wrote that guilt is a consequence of an unheard conscience, and it is especially painful for those who usually hear their conscience.

For such people, stepping over her call means eternal torment of guilt, even after years 😔
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🔺Champion among the "guilty" - debt sector 88/888 (8888/88888 will not be considered, everything is ambiguous here)🔺

Who among us has not felt guilt towards the deceased parents, offended by us children, animals, undeservedly offended?

I have experienced more than once. Now I still make such mistakes, but there is one simple way how not to come into contact with this feeling often.
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Guilt is not present in cases where you heard your initial call and acted as he commanded you.

For example, you flared up and a child innocent of your problems came under your arm, you broke down on him and .... you feel guilty. The worst thing about this is that then you start to make amends and do inappropriate things, like giving gifts, and thereby reinforce the wrong behavior.

Learn to hear the voice of conscience when you want to break loose - and everyone will not be hurt.

Another example, you know that you do not pay attention to the child and you are tormented by guilt, because that same voice always shows you the right choice, like a compass: spend the allotted time with the child and do what is more important now.
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This voice of conscience, like a hint, always sounds, even among the villains.
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You always have the choice to hear it or not. And when you learn to stop the moment you hear this prompt that says:

📌- hug
📌- don't scream
📌- be patient
📌- listen

It is important to train, for those who begin to hear such clues inside themselves. Without training, you will eat yourself up and spend a fortune at the therapist, continuing to load yourself with more and more reasons to feel guilty.
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Practice hearing the voice of conscience ❤

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03/25/2023

Mom is the only one. And her love is unconditional.
Unfortunately, motherly love is not always like this.
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To become a doctor, we get a diploma; to work with children, education is necessary. And you don't need anything to take care of your own children?
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Beta females, owners of debt 88/888, family 5/6/7 - thoughts “I am a bad mother” can constantly torment you.
Possible reasons:

📌 problems with self-esteem, always not good enough - either there are few achievements, or they are not implemented in the right way;
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📌 high standards in any business, this also applies to education. But in this area, the bar that you yourself set for yourself is invented, no one except you needs it;
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📌 dislike, the desire to deserve evaluation and praise from "auditors" with its correctness and, as a result, a constant desire to prove one's exclusivity.
I am a good mother, if I am not good, I have not been identified;
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📌 Endless guilt due to high standards.

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✅ accept the fact that your child doesn't have to be perfect. I'm sure you love him without the fact that he doesn't read or swim like a neighbor. He is good at something of his own, he has his own rhythm, and this is normal;
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✅ Realize that you and only you create the standards and rules of motherhood. The fact that you care and think about it already speaks of you as a good mother ☝
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✅ even if your child made a mistake and stumbled, this does not become your misconduct and the result of poor education. By the way, "bad" or negligent parents are more likely to raise children with great potential, because they create an environment open to gaining experience and making mistakes;

✅ Say "I'm sorry" - do not be ashamed. Each of us can break into a child. At this point, it is important to apologize, to take responsibility for your anger;
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✅ Respect children, because they are individuals, regardless of age.
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Do you often wonder if you are a good mother❓

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03/15/2023

03/15/2023

1. Mystical people, feel different 👻

These people inside themselves feel that they are not of this world, as if there is something in them that distinguishes them from other people.

2. Oppositionists, and revolutionaries. 😈

People have a strong vision of how it should be, where there are mistakes, and what to fix. These are people who go outside the system. By the way, they make excellent crisis managers, because they see at the moment what needs to be corrected and how so that the enterprise does not go bankrupt and continues its successful activities.

Such people are able to lead other people, to manage, they make excellent leaders, strong leaders. They have the courage to change systems, if they transform something, then in a serious way.

And by the way, they make excellent crisis managers. It is they who are able to save the enterprise from bankruptcy, to find the most suitable solution.

3. Sharp on the tongue. 😜

In their speech, there are often "tricks" in relation to others, sometimes they like to taunt, and pin-up. And it doesn’t always work out with humor, many are offended by them after that. They can say not in the eyebrow, but in the eye, as they say. And you can often observe that the speech is not so smooth, they can say directly what they think, and not always pleasant things.

4. Suddenly change. 😎

Although these people are very fond of planning and predicting everything, both their lives and working moments, there are situations when they are able to make a decision here and now and radically change their lives.

Any changes or difficult situations are often so global. But throughout their lives, such people get used to such situations, and even learn to hedge themselves if something suddenly happens in their lives.

5. Insatiable and unsatisfied. 🤑

They love to set goals for themselves, achieve them, and then go to new heights and achievements. But often, in the rush of this race, they cannot get pleasure or satisfaction from what they receive.

It seems that they dreamed of building a house, and now everything has happened, they go into the house, but there are no emotions at all, they already want something else.

6. Sexy. 😍

They attract with their sexuality. Although if you take a closer look at them, you can’t call them handsome, some kind of internal and external charisma makes them like no other people.

Share in the comments, do you have friends or acquaintances, relatives born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, or 31st? Are they similar to everything that I described above?