07/18/2025
Did you know that when you provide a woman with a thoughtful gift, that it immediately turns on her hormonal instincts for intimacy? This has been scientifically proven and is discussed in the worldâs #1 top selling book on relationships, Men Are From Mars & Women Are From Venus, by Dr. John Gray. According to studies, a feminine woman's primary love language is gifts, so donât be stingy with the wallet fellas because this is the best way to score major points with your woman!
This is because women are genetically programed to be more attracted to provider men who can offer safety and security. Keep in mind that no matter how independent a woman is, there is a completely different feeling when a woman provides for herself, than when a man does it for her; itâs sort of like an orgasmâŚyou can do it yourself, but itâs always better when someone else gives you the pleasure!
As a man, Iâm sure you already know that by showering your woman with gifts and flowers is going to make her smile every single time, so why not do it as often as possible? Unfortunately, we live in a society where women are becoming more masculine and men are becoming more feminine. In traditional courtship, it is the man who offers providership to show the woman through action that he has good intentions before intimacy. Even when it comes to s*x, it is the man who gives with his external part and the woman who receives with her internal parts, itâs only natural for women to be receivers in a relationship. At the end of the day, men refuel with food and s*x, and women refuel with gifts and pampering, it's biology.
With this said you want to know how to give a great gift! All women love flowers, so itâs important to know which kind is the best to give her. You definitely want to start off by asking what her favorite flowers and colors are, because every woman has her own special preference. But as a general rule of thumb, I would say that if you really want to surprise her with something elegant, but not too overstated, start with ivory, itâs clean and classy, then move into soft, feminine pastels like pink or violet (light blue is also my personal favorite because it's so rare), and I recommend saving red for special occasions.
For other great gift ideas, you should ask her, âWhat is the nicest gift you have ever received from a man?â This will give you an idea of what her expectations are, and how you can jump the bar and out perform her ex. Because you canât let him be a better gift together than you! If you really want to get a deeper and more meaningful gift, you can ask something like, âWhat is something that you have always wanted from a man?â. Her answer might surprise you! It might not even be material. It might be something thatâs free, like loyalty or feeling like a priority. No matter what it is, considering where you are in the relationship, you can keep it in the back of your mind as something that you can provide now or in the future.
It's sad that so many women feel guilty for wanting to be spoiled by a man, but deep down, we all want it. Itâs also important that when you give, you do it with no strings attached and that you never complain about it because this will only take away major points rather than you scoring major points. It's only natural that women are attracted to provider men who are generous and kind. Chivalry needs to be embraced, and at the end of the day, every woman wants to receive Princess treatment, it makes us feel special and adored. This is a sure fire way to inspire your woman shower you with appreciation and admiration!
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