09/06/2026
Sometimes, as nurses, we forget to take care of ourselves.
Throughout my career, there were so many shifts when I didn’t get a lunch or a break. Sometimes, if I ate at all, it was five minutes of eating quickly without ever really clocking out—because it was too busy and too many babies were being born.
Especially when I worked night shift, I would occasionally reach the point we call “hitting the wall.” After working too many shifts in a row, without enough sleep or rest, my body would finally say, “That’s enough.” I would crash and sometimes sleep for almost 24 hours.
I know many nurses who have experienced this. We keep pushing until our bodies force us to stop—and I know, for me, it happened because I wasn’t taking care of myself.
Two things have helped me find better balance.
The first is making time for what restores me: being with my family, praying, reading my Bible, meditating, and spending time with God. Those things remind me that I am more than my job.
The second is learning to set boundaries without feeling guilty.
I don’t have to come in for every extra shift. I don’t have to feel guilty when I need time for myself or my family. Taking care of myself does not mean I care less about my patients or coworkers.
The truth is, the hospital will continue to operate—but my family needs me, and I need to take care of myself too.
You are a nurse, but you are also a whole person.
Your health matters.
Your faith matters.
Your family matters.
And you matter too.
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