Robyn Furse, Mental Health Counselor

06/12/2026

There is nothing wrong with making access to you— physical, emotional, or spiritual— selective & arduous.

You are under no obligation to be an open book, & maybe expending some effort isn't unreasonable to ask of anyone who says they want to be close to you.

05/18/2026

When we reject our need to cry, we shame the part of ourselves that is carrying that profound sadness. Our tears aren't the enemy— the people & culture who made it feel unsafe for us to cry are. Don't side w/ them over the part of you that desperately needs to be held.

05/15/2026

"You cannot be intimate in the way we want these days without moving beyond the traditional gender roles we all learned as kids.

You cannot be a walled-off, unfeeling, invulnerable man and be intimate at the same time. You have to open your heart.

You cannot be an accommodating, resentful woman. You have to open your voice.

'You cannot love from the one-up superior. You cannot love from the one-down inferior. Love demands democracy.'
..Intimacy is the antidote to autocracy."

What is the secret to joy and happiness? Here’s what you need to know. —In this inspirational video, I reveal what 40 years of working with high achievers ha...

04/05/2026

Hello and welcome to my page! Just your average raging leftist PNW therapist here to help people figure their s**t out so they can have healthier relationships with themselves and others. Specializing in Polyamorous, ENM, Relationship Anarchist styles of relating because...of course I am.

I work primarily with individuals in order to help them clarify who they are, what they need, and what their limits and boundaries are so they can engage with integrity in their relationships with others.

To schedule an intake, ask questions, or request a free 15 minute consult to see if we're a good fit, call or email:

253-220-7312
[email protected]

04/04/2026