08/06/2026
For all the moms who feel like a failure when it comes to working outā¦
Itās time to break up with your idea of a āgood workout.ā
No offense - that plan served you well in a particular season. Iām sure you once were very consistent. It may have led to some great gains. It perhaps made you feel really good.
But you are in a new season, which calls for a new plan.
Your season calls for flexibility.
Your season calls for grace.
Your season calls for different priorities.
Itās hard to get up early when youāre up during the night with a baby or toddler. Itās impossible to decide during nap time whether you should work out, clean the house, or take a nap yourself.
There is no shame in not being able to work out how you used to. There is NO shame in prioritizing your kids, your home, or even sleep over a long, hard workout.
And this is where many of us throw in the towel and fall for the all-or-none mentality. If it canāt be what it used to be, then thereās no point. Your season of life has shifted, but your idea of what constitutes a good workout has not.
But there IS another alternative - one where SOMETHING is better than nothing, and small acts of consistency still build up to create change over time.
You donāt have to be all or none. You donāt have to quit in this season totally. But you DO need to shift what you think your workout should look like, and find a new flexible plan that fits in the random pockets of mom life and offers you grace for the days that need it.
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