06/29/2020
We are so incredibly humbled by the generosity of Brian Sims and the gift of time he donated to Alan. Thank you doesn’t begin to describe the gift you have given him and his family, who are now your family. Thank you!
GIFT OF TIME: On Christmas Day, last December, I wasn’t able to go see my parents or visit with biological family, and I received a really special invite here in Philly.
I’d spent months getting tested, and retested to secretly give a neighbor, Alan my kidney before the holiday but it turned out a December surgery just wasn’t in the cards. Instead, he and his partner invited me to spend time with them and their family for Christmas Dinner!
He was sick for sure, his daily allotment of pills normally taking up an entire sideboard had been moved methodically to a lower shelf to make room for candles and Christmasy baked goodness.
Just as we were wrapping up dinner, his husband asked me to hand them a beautifully wrapped box under the tree behind me. I reached to pass it along but they told me it was for me to unwrap.
I’m pretty sure we all cried as I read the inscription aloud: “Brian, Thank you for your Gift of Time. Alan”
It’s been the toughest of years for Alan, his husband John, and their family. I’m so proud to be a part of that family now and I hope that time also gives them the gift of healing.