06/02/2026
The idea that women “shouldn’t” take hormones because we’re “naturally designed” to go through menopause is one of the most interesting concerns I hear. Here’s the thing, you’re going to go through menopause either way. If we can soften the blow of suffering during the transition into and after menopause, why not?
You know what else isn’t natural? Shoes. Toilet paper. Curling irons. IV fluids. Your cell phone. Your car. Antibiotics. Eyeglasses. Contact lenses. Dental braces. Hair color. Deodorant. Living into your 90s.
Modern medicine has always been about using the tools available to help people feel better, function better, and avoid unnecessary suffering.
Yes, challenges can shape us. They can build resilience, deepen our faith, and teach us important lessons. But that doesn’t mean every symptom is something we’re supposed to silently endure when help is available.
For years, confusion and fear have influenced the conversation around hormone therapy. Many women were left believing they had no safe options, often based on incomplete or misunderstood information.
As a result, countless women have spent years dealing with hot flashes, poor sleep, brain fog, anxiety, fatigue, joint pain, and other symptoms without realizing there may be support available. Your relationship doesn’t have to be on the ice because you rage over things that don’t make sense to rage over. You don’t have to lose your sense of self because you can’t think straight.
We don’t tell someone with poor eyesight that they should learn to appreciate blurry vision instead of wearing glasses.
We don’t accuse someone of taking the easy way out because they got braces.
And we rarely question whether other forms of modern healthcare are “natural enough” to use.
So why do we treat hormone therapy differently?
Choosing hormone therapy isn’t a character flaw. It isn’t weakness.
But every woman deserves access to accurate information, quality medical care, and the ability to make informed decisions about her own health.
Asking for help isn’t giving up.
Sometimes it’s simply taking good care of the body God entrusted to you.