08/28/2026
Maybe the bitch in you isn’t asking to burn the village down.
Maybe she’s asking you to stop volunteering to carry all its fu***ng firewood.
Read that again.
Because somewhere along the way, we learned to call a woman angry when she stopped accommodating.
Difficult when she stopped over-functioning.
Selfish when she stopped carrying what was never hers.
Too much when she finally took up the space she’d been giving away.
So maybe this fire you’re feeling isn’t destruction.
Maybe it’s information.
Maybe your irritation is pointing directly at the places you’ve been saying yes while your whole body is screaming no.
Maybe your anger knows exactly where you’ve abandoned yourself in the name of being good, helpful, agreeable, understanding.
You don’t have to burn anything down.
You don’t need to blow up your life.
You don’t even need to make a fu***ng announcement.
Just.
Put.
The firewood.
Down.
Let the village figure out how to tend its own damn fire.
You’ve got one of your own to feed.
And she is fu***ng magnificent. 🔥