10/22/2026
Vulnerable share… this is the state of my kitchen the past couple days!😬
Whenever I share things like this with clients, they are always so surprised and say “You mean it’s like that for you too?!”
YES - I am not perfect and therapists do not have perfect lives, just like everyone else. We have to stop judging ourselves against impossible standards. If you think life should look a certain picture-perfect way, ask yourself where did that belief or teaching come from? Movies, tv, fairy tales, religion, society, family of origin?
It’s ok to not do it all! It’s ok to not have it all together! Most of us do not have it all together.
What you’ll find is if you stop judging yourself so much for all the ways you feel you’re “failing” or not measuring up, the ripple effect of non-judgment will extend to others.
You will have more patience, forgiveness and grace for where others are at, knowing that we’re all doing our best with the knowledge and circumstances we have at the time!
overwhelm | perfectionism | anxiety | overachieving | people pleasing | burnout | stress management