07/28/2026
4 questions to ask about your child's ABA program. Beyond "how many hours," here's what is worth asking.
Question 1: Where will the hours be delivered? A child spending all their time in a center is having a very different experience than a child whose hours are spread across the center, the home, and the community. Home-based therapy is where caregiver coaching happens, where skills get practiced in real contexts, and where your family becomes equipped to support learning every hour of the day, not just when a therapist is present.
Question 2: What's the ratio of individual to group sessions? Some skills genuinely need one-on-one work and others need group interaction.
Question 3: Is there room left in the week for my child to just be a child? A week cannot be wall-to-wall therapy. There has to be room for family, for play that your child leads, for siblings, grandparents, neighbors, and friends. A schedule so packed with intervention that there's no time left for living simply isn't in your child's best interest.
Question 4: Is anyone treating co-occurring needs as part of this plan? Sleep problems, GI issues, sensory needs, anxiety: these aren't edge cases in autism. They're the rule, and they shape every moment of therapy. A program is only as strong as its understanding of your child's whole self, not just their behavior.
A child who is exhausted, dysregulated, or in physical discomfort cannot learn well, no matter how many hours of therapy they receive. The goal was never the most hours. It's the right care, delivered in the right way, for your specific child.
You are allowed to ask these questions. A good program will welcome them.
For the full conversation on ABA hours and whole-child care, comment "ABA" and I'll send you the links to listen to Episode 17 of the Magnificent Minds podcast.