08/08/2026
A question for you: What’s something you had to unlearn to become a healthier version of yourself?
Maybe it was…
• “I have to make everyone happy.”
• “If someone is upset with me, I must have done something wrong.”
• “Asking for help means I’m weak.”
• “I have to earn love by being useful.”
• “If I set a boundary, I’m being selfish.”
• “I need to have everything figured out.”
• “My feelings are a problem.”
• “I can’t trust my own judgment.”
Sometimes growth isn’t about learning something new. Sometimes it’s about letting go of something we learned long ago that was once necessary for survival, belonging, or protection, but no longer serves us. And unlearning can be hard because those beliefs can feel like truth when we’ve carried them for years.
What’s one belief, habit, or pattern you’re currently working on unlearning?