10/25/2026
I recently finished The Disappearance of Rituals by philosopher Byung-Chul Han. A beautiful, short, and surprisingly unsettling read.
It left me questioning how much of our lives we’ve surrendered to screens, endless information, performative authenticity, and the constant pressure to optimize everything—even rest.
I’m guilty of it myself. I loved the early circus of social media. Now I occasionally fantasize about a flip phone and a house without Wi-Fi.
But what struck me most was how deeply Han’s philosophy connects to addiction recovery and the rituals we’ve intentionally built at Fellowship House.
Have we mistaken constant communication for connection? And exposure for authenticity?
I wrote a personal reflection on the book, our digital addictions, the strange theater of modern life, and why I still find extraordinary meaning sitting in a room with one person trying to recover.
Sometimes the most important life is the one happening right in front of us.
Read my latest blog: The Disappearance of Rituals: When Authenticity Becomes Barbarism.
Joseph A. Van Wie III reflects on Byung-Chul Han, digital life, authenticity, and the rituals that create belonging in addiction recovery.