07/24/2026
Hello again friends! 💛 I’m finally getting around to writing an update on our Jemma girl, it’s long over due so hopefully I can remember it all.
June was a busy month, for our annual family vacation, we flew into St Petersburg Florida and stayed at the Tradewinds resort. We loved it and the kids had so much fun, they offered so many on site activities every day and the entire resort was accessible for Jemma to get around in her chair when she was tired. Unfortunately there was a heat wave the week we were there so temps stayed around 100 degrees with high humidity, so it felt like 105-115 most days. The main concern we have about extreme temperatures like this is an increase in seizures for Jemma and overheating easily because of her CP, she did have more seizures and was struggling to cool off, so we went to the beach in the evenings instead of during the day, and kept Jemma in the shaded pools during the day, which helped. Overall we had a great trip!
However, since the increase in seizures has been consistent, her doctor did increase her spasm medication dosage again. He called while we were on vacation to explain our options, he offered to give her a long-term fourth medication that could change her care to a more palliative approach, or bring her in for an extended EEG to determine if spasms were causing seizures or vice versa and start steroids again for 4 weeks and hope it keeps seizures and spasms away for another 10 months and push to keep fighting for seizures freedom. We will always choose to fight, but it is the same runaround we’ve done for the past three years. He said he’d increase her dosage anyway based on her symptoms, and prescribed her a Vitamin B6 supplement to hopefully help with the side effects she’s already having. Then told us to wait 10 days to see if she improved. So we prayed and prayed that it would be enough, and if I am being totally honest.. I did doubt that it would work. We’ve done this for so long, epilepsy treatment and seizure control just feels like an ever-moving target that we can’t reach. BUT, since the medication adjustment she actually has had improvement! Seizures are down from 2-3 daily again, to about 1 every 2-3 days. This is great! We are scheduled to bring her in for EEG in the next couple months to get a look at what her brain is doing and decide if steroids or another medication is the route we take. I’m so hesitant to agree to either, they’re both terrible options really, with many negative side effects on both sides. Please help us pray we can make the right choice, that will be the best for her and her health overall. 💛
While we wait for the EEG and keep monitoring her for seizures, Jemma is having her annual month of intensive therapy at AbilityKC! She started on Monday July 20, and will be here until August 14! We will go home on some weekends to remember where we came from and balm our homesickness when we need it, but she is already doing AMAZING here. She’s had improvements in speech and learning more words, using her AAC device, she’s working on better balance and coordination with Physical Therapy, and today her Occupational therapist showed me videos of Jemma grasping a ball with her left hand! We’re so excited to see what this month will do for Jemma and how much she will gain. 💛 Please pray with us that this month will be full of improvements and new skills, that we can stay safe here and while we travel back and forth.
We have sent our passports off and are anxiously waiting for them to be approved and get back to us so that we can take her to Neorgana in Merida for stem cells! Right now, we are looking at dates in late August or early September if everything can line up right. The cost of treatment is about $15,000, with half of the payment due as a deposit at scheduling. This includes neuro activation therapies while we are there, the stem cell treatment itself over 3-4 days, and the hotel accommodations and shuttle. We will need to book our own flights there and back. We have saved for months in order to do this, so we are chasing hope that this will be a blessing, and change things for the better for Jemma. Nothing is really guaranteed in terms of results because stem cell treatment is still a fairly new thing, and every person responds differently, but we are optimistic that Jemma will benefit and see improvements in muscle tone, speech, behavior, seizure decrease in frequency and severity, and nervous system regulation. There is a chance it may not do everything we want it to, but every chance there is at hope for a better quality of life for her is worth it, and we’re going to take it. Every time.💛
Thank you for praying and supporting us, for staying in the loop and caring about our sweet girl. I’ve said it a lot, but I am always more aware of it when we are away from home that we really are blessed with our town where our community has stayed aware of Jemma’s life and watched her grow, I absolutely LOVE when we come home and people are kind and care so much, because they already know what Jemma’s been through, they know how much she’s struggled to get to where she is and what a miracle she is. I love that I don’t feel like I need to constantly apologize for her all the time, when she gets overwhelmed or when she’s just behaving differently than a typical kid. I’m working on not apologizing so much anymore, because she’s not being malicious, she is not a bother, she is not in the way, she has just as much right to be everywhere everyone else is, and I need to work on caring less about the opinions and funny looks from strangers that judge her because they don’t know what she’s had to fight through, and won’t see her as the blessed, wonderfully sweet, beautiful girl she is. But it is hard, so I’m grateful that being home feels like an exhale, to be around people that understand and love her. So, thank you. 💛
Stay tuned for many more pictures and updates on Jemma’s days here in KC! I plan to post much more often to keep you all updated on her progress! 💛