09/18/2026
What happens when a long battle may finally be over—but some part of you is still bracing?
Yesterday may have been my last custody hearing.
Today, I’m thinking less about what happened in the courtroom and more about what happens after years of conflict—when the external demands begin to recede, but our inner lives haven’t necessarily caught up.
What do we do with all the energy that was once required simply to survive?
This question feels especially significant as I turn my attention back to completing Me Reclaimed, the manuscript I began nearly a decade ago.
My new essay explores the space between survival and reclamation—and the possibility of discovering what becomes possible when more of our lives are finally returned to us.
When the Battle Ends Before Your Body Knows It
On what happens when a long period of conflict ends—and the work of reclaiming our lives begins