30/01/2025
It's DAY 30 of 30 Days of Inspiration! If you've stuck with me this entire 30 days and read even just a handful of these emails, thank you! I hope you've been inspired.
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I heard this concept the other day from and I really like it. Because, words matter.
I'm well aware that for some people, the word "goals" lights a fire under them--in a good way. Goals are their thing.
For others, it equates to a feeling of intense pressure, overwhelm, or even a feeling of inadequacy because you're not achieving. Â
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If the words goals or resolutions leaves you feeling cringy, how about this?
Standards. Â
What if, instead of getting stuck in overwhelm or feeling inferior because you like the idea of growing and improving but the idea of being pressured by a goal doesn't do it for you, what if you just set a new standard for yourself? Â
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Here are some examples:
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When you're hanging out with your kids, you put your phone away.
You only drink water with meals now.
You have a standard now that you get in 10,000 steps a day.
You have a standard that you're no longer going to give time and energy to people that don't respect you.
Instead of a goal to have a tidier house, you set a standard that you put things away when you're done using them. Â
You now have a standard that when you get a craving for sweets around 2-3pm, you have fruit instead of an unhealthy sweet thing.
Your new standard is that instead of reacting when triggered, you're going to pause, take a breath and then respond, not react.
I just love the word standard. It's so low pressure, but personal and impactful. Â
So if your New Year's resolutions, intentions or goals are not inspiring you, Â
How about setting a new standard for yourself?