17/02/2021
One of the most considerable psychological impacts we see amid COVID-19 is this disruption of connection, as we are designed for connection and relationships. It is one of the most powerful predictors of our well-being.
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As social creatures who rely on connection for well-being in ways that we don’t quite realize a lot of the time, we have never felt more distant and have never felt more isolated.
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It is really about our perception of connection, not how many hours in a day we spend with people. During a time like this, it’s more of a question of “how do I feel close?” We need to find ways to feel safe and connected.
Here are some ways to get there⬇️
1. Shifting our mindset from “Social Distancing” to “Physical Distancing.”
2. Leveraging technology maintains social contact, which many of us are doing (Facetime, Skype, Zoom).
3. A reminder that feeling connected matters more to health and well- being than the amount of contact.
4. Fostering Loving-Kindness
5. Expressions of Appreciation
6. Who can I get support from?
7. Who do I need to take space from?
8. Who can I reach out and connect with?
Our Brain and Body on Connection⬇️
Poor Social Support linked to:
• Activation of the pain centers of our brain
• Cingulate gyrus activation in social pain experiences
• Increased activation of the amygdala
• Telomere shrinkage (Epel, 2009)
• Cortisol dysregulation
• Seeing others’ pain activates our pain centers (Botvinick, 2005)
Good Social Support linked to:
• Decreased cardiovascular reactivity (Lepore, 1993)
• Decreased blood pressure (Spitzer, 1992)
• Decreased cortisol (Kiecolt-Glaser, 1984)
• Improved immune system functioning (Cohen, 2003)
• Slows cognitive decline (Bassuk, 1999)
• Vagus nerve stimulation
• Increased release of oxytocin
• Increased serotonin, dopamine
How are you connecting?