06/05/2026
It can be tempting to judge ourselves for the ways we cope.
So, before labeling a behavior as good or bad, try getting curious.
- What need am I trying to meet?
- What feeling am I trying to move toward?
- What feeling am I trying to move away from?
Awareness doesn’t always change what we do immediately; sometimes, it simply helps us understand ourselves a bit more clearly.
Sources:
Holahan et al. (2005). DOI: 10.1037/0022-006X.73.4.658
Hofmann & Hay (2018). DOI: 10.1016/j.janxdis.2018.03.004