10/02/2026
Number 2 is a good one!!
Let me explain….
1. GIANT FREEZER STASHES
If you want a freezer stash, great. But you do NOT need hundreds of ounces of breast milk stored away to successfully breastfeed or return to work.
When you return to work, you’re typically pumping while you’re away from your baby to provide milk for future feeds. You need enough to get you through that separation plus some backup, not necessarily a freezer full of milk.
And pumping significantly more than your baby needs just to build a huge stash can sometimes create its own problems: oversupply, engorgement, plugged ducts, and a whole lot of unnecessary pressure.
2. BOTTLES MARKETED AS “BREAST-LIKE”
This marketing gets me every time.
A bottle ni**le can LOOK like a breast and still not encourage the latch or oral mechanics we’re looking for.
I care much more about ni**le shape and flow, your baby’s latch and oral function, and HOW you’re offering the bottle.
Use an appropriate flow, pace the feeding, watch your baby’s cues, and don’t force them to finish the bottle just because there’s milk left.
3. TIMING EVERY BREASTFEEDING SESSION
“10 minutes on this side. 15 minutes on that side.”
But what was your baby actually DOING during those minutes?
A baby can spend 30 minutes at the breast and transfer very little milk, while another baby may have a much more efficient feeding in less time.
Instead of obsessing over the clock, I want you watching your baby.
Are you seeing active, rhythmic sucking? Are you hearing swallowing? Does your baby seem satisfied after feeding? How are diapers and weight gain looking?
The number of minutes your baby spends at the breast doesn’t tell us how much milk they transferred.
The theme here?
You don’t need to do something just because social media has convinced you that every breastfeeding mom should.
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