Four Branches Therapy & Wellness, LLC

10/09/2026

Setting boundaries with yourself is tough work, so give yourself grace when it feels like a struggle. Instead of tracking what fell through the cracks, focus on what you actually built today:

🩵​Build a "Done List": Write down what you accomplished, no matter how small, to make progress visible.

🧡​Credit the Effort: Acknowledge the focus and discipline you showed, not just the finished output.

🩵​Reframe Slip-ups: Treat missed boundaries as data on where your routine needs support, not as personal failure.

​What is one boundary you successfully held today that you can take credit for?🩵🧡

10/09/2026

When we see people attack empathy or say things like, “The fundamental weakness of Western civilization is empathy” (Elon Musk, 2025), we should ask ourselves, “What harm, pain, or hurt do they not want us to see or feel? Who do they want to hurt, humiliate, or dehumanize without accountability?”

Based on our research over the past 25 years, creating meaningful connections and human-centered systems requires a combination of compassion and cognitive empathy. I think of compassion as the daily practice and cognitive empathy as one its most powerful tools.

We define compassion as the daily practice of recognizing and accepting our shared humanity so that we treat ourselves and others with loving-kindness, and we take action in the face of suffering.

Most definitions of compassion share a commitment to action. It’s not just feeling, it’s doing. Compassion is fueled by accepting that we’re all made of strength and struggle—no one is immune to pain or suffering. Compassion is not a practice of “better than” or “I can fix you”—it’s a practice based in the beauty and pain of shared humanity.

Most researchers agree there are at least two elements to empathy: cognitive empathy and affective empathy. Cognitive empathy, sometimes called perspective taking, is the ability to recognize and understand another person’s emotions. Affective empathy, often called experience sharing, is one’s own emotional attunement with another person’s experience.

The empathy we desperately need is understanding what someone is feeling, not feeling it for them. If someone feels lonely, empathy doesn’t require us to feel lonely too, only to reach back into our own experience with loneliness so we can understand and connect. Affective empathy, feeling something along with the person who is struggling, is a slippery slope toward becoming too overwhelmed to offer meaningful support.

Again, empathy is a tool of compassion. We can respond empathically only if we are willing to be present to someone’s pain. If we’re not willing to do that, it’s not real empathy. And the lack of real empathy is 100% a major threat to civilizations.

Thank you to Toni Nova for this powerful reminder.

10/09/2026

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October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Domestic violence is a pattern of behavior used by an individual to establish and maintain power and control over their intimate partner.

The behavior includes abusive tactics, threats, and actions that may or may not rise to the level of criminal behavior. The tactics may include physical, emotional, financial, and/or sexual abuse.

If you or someone you know needs help, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233
Catholic Charities Harbor House (316) 268-6000
Wichita Family Crisis Center at (316) 268-7501.
Hope Medical Forensic Services

10/08/2026

2 things can be true at once.
316-613-3995

10/05/2026

Holding onto expectations of who someone should be—rather than accepting who they are—is one of the most exhausting emotional loops you can get stuck in. It keeps your peace of mind hostage to someone else's behavior.
​Breaking this cycle requires a shift in focus from trying to change them to changing your own response. The therapists at FBTW are here to help. Call 316-613-3995 for information.
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10/03/2026

Call our office if you are wanting support.
316-613-3995

09/30/2026

Our words hold incredible power. While acknowledging our thoughts and naming our feelings is a crucial first step, true growth happens when we learn to guide our emotions rather than letting them dictate our behaviors. If you find this challenging, you don't have to navigate it alone—our team is here to support you. Call our office today to learn how we can help. 316-613-3995

09/11/2026

Today, we pause for a solemn moment of mindfulness on the 25th anniversary of 9/11. We reflect on the lives lost, honor their memories, and hold space for everyone affected.
​September is also National Su***de Prevention Month—a timely reminder of how deeply our well-being is connected. Let's make a conscious effort to reach out to loved ones, check in on our neighbors, and look out for each other.

09/09/2026

09/04/2026

🔸️Are you looking for a private practice office within a successful, established group?
🔸️Are you a self motivated, business minded provider who desires some minimal guidance so you don’t have to do it all alone?
🔸️Do you want to be your own boss, while receiving feedback & support from the experience of mentors?
🔸️Are you tech savvy & want to manage your own calendar?
🔸️Are you wanting amenities such as a admin support, play therapy room, group therapy room & sand tray therapy room?

🩵🧡FBTW is a well established, group private practice in west Wichita. We have furnished or unfurnished, turnkey office options available and we're seeking experiential, trauma informed, licensed, independent providers who share our holistic vision of treatment. Referral resources are available in our office and you get to control your caseload, calendar & income. Large offices vary in square footage ( Furnished/Shared- 10.6 x 11.9 or Unfurnished 15.5x 11.5)
If this sounds like the right fit for you, then please email [email protected] with expressed interest of joining our team. We'd love to chat!