31/08/2020
👩🏽🎨Hi dear sensitive, empathic ladies!!!
🌠Do you ever wonder why you seem to struggle more with the 'business side' of your own work? Or ever wonder why you get so emotionally involved with other people and get terribly distracted doing your own 'stuff'?
🖌As an intuitive person, you require a different way of 'being, of doing and creating, of being with others, loved ones and relationships.
⚡️As an intuitive you sense energy easily, which makes you special, 'different' and sensitive but also more vulnerable.
This can make you more sensitive for critique.
😳As an intuitive you are most likely to be an empath, and knowing what this means can be very helpful in how you present yourself, how you plan your year, or make a client calls, how you do your marketing.
How you set your prices & how you deal with your free time, your private life versus work.
As an empath you are probably
👉🏼Easily overwhelmed.
👉🏼Strong intuition.
👉🏼Love of nature.
👉🏼Dislike of crowds/sensitive to sounds/large groups
👉🏼Deep caring, deep feeling for feeling of others, understanding pain.
👉🏼People pleaser
👉🏼Good at Problem solving, easily in solving role.
👉🏼High sensitivity of energy or disharmony
👉🏼Difficult to set boundaries, or feel own needs
Knowing this, any well meant 'advice' from a general business coach, of a friend or any advice on relationships, can be killing for you and work against you.
☺️'You just have to trust it will be ok' .... great advice, and often well meant... but for an empath this is NOT the right advice. or not the complete advice at all.
Trust is a good thing, but as an empath you are not very good at setting your own boundaries, and often you don't like conflict
So if you would just trust it would be ok, you are easily forgetting your own needs, or forget to raise importants boundaries and suddenly find yourself in stressful positions with too little time, prices too low and too many hours investing in the process, loosing overview and being afraid to even confront a client for the mess you created unwillingly.
This is also then reflected in your relationship.
The 'passion' or love, for the creative side often takes over and you forget to look after yourself in the name of the passion, for the love...for the other, the work, the process, the 'gift'
and you
🙈work too long
🙈paid too little
and give yourself too little of what you need to be in your 'MAGIC"
You adjust to other's needs, in work and in your private life. you forget little by little who you were and feel more distanced from your core, your intuition or knowing what you really need. you forget who you are.
💫Would it help if you would feel less GUILTY for the price you want to really ask for your gifts? Less guilty for the space you need? DO you easily give discounts or feel you need to please your client before even agreeing to a price?
💫Would it help you if you aknowledge your need of extra time, of walking in nature, of having a structure which serves you?
💫Would it help you if you know you need to set clear boundaries in your relationship and talk better about what keeps you in your creative flow?
If you allow yourself to be more free?
what would that do to you?
happy to hear some feedback or questions in the comments...
☎️I have 3 days left till my great discount ends for my one to one coaching and if this all speaks to you and if you think this specific kind of coaching for empaths can really serve you, reach out. put a Emoij in the comments and I get back to you with a calender link to book a free creative call, in which we look at what help would be most serving to you and what you need.
And yes I am an empath too 😉 But i can now listen to my needs and set my boundaries without feeling guilty so I can fully enjoy my magic. Hopefully WITH YOU ❤
