Ava Chiu 趙慰芬

Ava Chiu 趙慰芬 Clinical Hypnotherapy for psychosomatic illness,
Somatic Experiencing Therapy,
Coaching in Stress an

About the Therapist

Ava first became interested in how the subconscious mind shapes one’s life when she came across educational psychology in the UK way back in the 1980s. After graduating with first class honours, Ava returned to HK to join the educational profession briefly, and then the civil service. Alongside her career as a directorate officer in various policy-making bureaux, Ava complet

ed intensive training under renowned hypnotherapists Randall Churchill and Marlene Mulder in the US, and qualified as a Hypnotherapist and Regression Specialist. She continued to enrich and deepen her therapeutic expertise with further training in Clinical Hypnotherapy and other specialties, including Bioenergetics Analysis, Neuro-linguistic Programming and coaching, under leading international and local experts including Dr Jeffrey Zeig, Dr Stephen Gilligan, Dr Vincentia Schroeter and Dr Keith To. Fascinated by the spectacular advances in neuroscience over the past two decades, Ava went on to acquire training in Somatic Experiencing Therapy, Ego States Therapy, Bodynamics and mindfulness practices from scholars and practitioners including Dr Sonya Gomes, Dr Cornelia Rossi, Dr Woltemade Hartman, Ale Duart, Lisbeth Marcher, Ditte Marcher, and Dr Peta McAuley. In her practice, Ava goes beyond mere talk therapy to adopt a more holistic approach, supporting her clients as they explore and tackle their issues at the cognitive, emotional, somatic and subconscious levels. Apart from her private practice, Ava also renders voluntary service as a personal coach and mentor in different non-profit organisations. She also took part in organising the Hong Kong Body-Mind-Spirit Expo held in four top universities in Hong Kong. With more than 20 years of experience as a career woman, Ava knows the stress experienced by a working spouse and parent. She has learned through her own circumstances the importance of consciously taking care of one’s own well-being in order to keep to the path of personal growth, health and wholesome relationships. She is keen to accompany her clients as they tackle their life issues and discover the beauty, meaning and blessings behind.

有關治療師的資料

Ava於八零年代在英國求學, 初次接觸教育心理學,
開始對潛意識於一個人的影響,產生強烈的興趣。
她以一級榮譽畢業後,回港加入教育界服務兩年,
然後加入政府,曾任多個政策局的司級官員。

與此同時,Ava 多次赴美,跟隨催眠大師
Randall Churchill 和 MarleneMulder 學習催眠治療,
成為臨床催眠治療師,以及和催眠回朔治療師。
其後,她持續進修,追隨多個國際及本地著名治療師,
包括Dr Jeffrey Zeig,Dr Stephen Gilligan, Dr Vincentia Schroeter 和 Dr Keith To,深化催眠治療的技考,
以及學習其他治療及思維方法,包括 身心語言程序學,
生物能學分析 和教練培訓等。
近二十年來,腦神經學科突飛猛進,產生了不少有效的治療方法,為了令治療工作更有成效,Ava先後跟隨 Dr Sonya Gomes,Dr Cornelia Rossi,Dr Woltemade Hartman, Lisbeth Marcher, Fitte Marcher 和 Dr Peta McAuley 等大師, 學習體感治療法,自我狀態治療法 和 正念減壓等。
Ava 的治療方法,不僅停留於對話層面,能夠更全面支持你,在認知,情緒,體感,以至於潛意識的層面,探索和處理你的生命課題。
除了治療工作以外,Ava 也在不同的非牟利機構,提供義務教練和導師服務。她也曾經參與組織在香港四間大學舉行的身心靈博覽活動。
Ava有二十多年的工作經驗,深明一個全職配偶和家長的壓力。她從自身經驗,明白到有需要有意識的關愛自己,才能夠造就個人生命成長,保持健康,和健康的關係。
Ava 全心陪伴你,處理你的生命課題, 發現背後的意義,祝福和美善。

To Think or Not to ThinkThe title of Ryunosuke Koike‘s book “The Practice of Not Thinking” immediately catches my attent...
16/04/2026

To Think or Not to Think

The title of Ryunosuke Koike‘s book “The Practice of Not Thinking” immediately catches my attention.

Thinking needs practice. The exposing of our hidden assumptions, checking their validity, discovering loopholes in our logic. All these require practice.

But “not thinking”? Why should we practise and how?

In his book, Ryunosuke Koike—a former monk in Japan—attempts to explain these.

He suggests that it is the nature of the mind to seek stronger and stronger stimulation. Since negative thoughts are often more stimulating than neutral or positive ones, the mind has a tendency to return to negativity. Over time, people can fall into this pattern without noticing, which he calls “a thinking disease”.

Koike also argues that thinking consumes energy, so when we are caught in thought, our other senses—sight, hearing, smell, taste, and touch—become dulled. As a result, the mind and body fall out of rhythm.

In addition, the more we overwork one part of the brain, the less we perceive physical information through our senses. Our sensory information becomes less and less adequate to counterbalance our negative thoughts.

His recommended practice is simple: periodically observe the movements and focus of our mind, and if we notice ourselves thinking unnecessary thoughts, gently but consciously shift our awareness back to one of the five senses. As attention returns to sensory experience, the unneeded thoughts usually begin to loosen their hold.

The practice, then, is to engage the senses more fully so that ordinary life becomes vivid again. For example:
- Instead of merely glancing at your loved ones, look at them as if for the first time.
- Instead of just hearing children making noise, listen closely to the quality of their voices;
- Instead of just touching your own skin, feel its temperature or texture.

Koike explains that focusing on a pure sensation is a pleasant experience, which comes not from a sense of physical pleasure but rather from “the comfort of a focused mental state where we have stopped processing information and remain within the feeling one has achieved”.

As he puts it: “There is a difference between touch and actually feeling. In a Buddhist context, it is the difference between forgetting and focusing.”

To think or not to think? Well clearly there is a time for everything. No one can function in the real world by sensing all day. And yet there is certainly great benefit if we can cultivate the ability to shake ourselves loose from intrusive and unhelpful thoughts, and we are then free to decide whether we want to use the space thus created to experience the joy of pure sensations or to engage in conscious productive thinking.

HabitsI am asked to clasp my hands, interlacing my fingers, and to repeat doing so three times. It is pointed out to me ...
10/04/2026

Habits

I am asked to clasp my hands, interlacing my fingers, and to repeat doing so three times. It is pointed out to me that all three times my left thumb rests on the right one. “Oh, is that so?” I say. “Yeah, this position comes automatically. It feels comfortable and natural.”

And then I’m asked to clasp my hands with the right thumb over the left, and it’s a bit strange—like something is wrong.

I don’t know why my body chose one way instead of the other. There might be reasons why one position feels more natural than the other, including habits I’ve developed without even noticing.

The important thing is that the other way is not wrong. My husband happens to do it that way. The discomfort I feel doing that is in fact easily overcome with some practice, especially if it’s paired with some deep, relaxing breaths. Once I slow down and give my body time, the unfamiliar position starts to feel more normal.

This is something I can apply to how we live with other people. Sometimes our first discomfort around someone else’s habits or preferences doesn’t mean they are doing something wrong—it may simply mean we have different habits.

When you look at yourself in the mirror, What do you see?What do you feel?What do you say?
28/11/2024

When you look at yourself in the mirror,
What do you see?
What do you feel?
What do you say?

Using SilenceSome people dread silence more than others. They rush to fill moments of silence, with noise, sound, music,...
08/07/2023

Using Silence

Some people dread silence more than others. They rush to fill moments of silence, with noise, sound, music, chitchats, lectures, podcasts, etc

The following paragraph, from Joseph M. Marshall III’s “Keep Going”, introduces another way of relating with silence.

“The Earth has a heartbeat, “ Old Hawk said. “In between each beat is silence. That silence is the time when the Earth’s life force gathers strength for the next beat. You must learn to do the same. Use the silence to gather yourself.”

Things we long to hear from ourselves: I see you.You don’t need to win my love.I love you already.I promise I will take ...
05/09/2022

Things we long to hear from ourselves:

I see you.
You don’t need to win my love.
I love you already.
I promise I will take care of you.
You were hurt.
Thank you for surviving this far.
Now that I see you, we can heal.
We can share an abundant life.

From me to me.

Difficult timeLife does not always take place in a swimming pool. Sometimes it takes place in the formidable rapids, wat...
04/11/2021

Difficult time

Life does not always take place in a swimming pool. Sometimes it takes place in the formidable rapids, water fast-flowing and turbulent over rocks after rocks.

Our natural tendency is either to panic stiff, or to swim even more effortfully. Both ways will get us seriously hurt.

People experienced in shooting rapids learn a third way. Their secret is to relax, really relax, and let the water carry them along. This way they find will let them slip through among the rocks most smoothly, minimizing the danger of getting hurt.

I don’t know how true this is and I would certainly not opt to swim in rapids. But I do witness in the consultation room that when people develop the ability to flow with life, sliding among the many inevitable obstacles life presents to it, they suffer less and begin to feel a different sense of well-being.

There is real power in relaxation.

Babies’ eyesWe all love looking into babies’ eyes. Yes babies are cute and beautiful, but there is something more going ...
16/10/2020

Babies’ eyes

We all love looking into babies’ eyes.

Yes babies are cute and beautiful, but there is something more going on as we lock gaze with them.

Researchers find that when a baby and an adult make eye contact, their brain waves fall in sync. The baby's and the adult's brain activity appear to get in sync by meeting in the middle. When gazes are shared, a baby's brain waves becomes more like the adult’s, and the adult’s more like the baby's.

This shared pattern of brain activity may pave the way for better communication. So when the eyes of adults and babies meet, and brains meet, some interesting learning happens, for both adult and baby. (Reference: “Speaker gaze increases information coupling between infant and adult brains” by Victoria Leong, Elizabeth Byrne, Kaili Clackson, Stanimira Georgieva, Sarah Lam, Sam Wass)

We would all agree that babies have a lot to learn from us. But how about the other way round?

Recalling my personal experience, babies, when they look at us, they are totally present. They are intense and they open up. Their gaze are not laden with psychological defences. There is curiosity and eagerness to just meet us. This simple openness somehow helps us open up bodily. They help us access the part of ourselves that are not guarded, and that is a blessed place, long forgotten and surprisingly uplifting when in a safe place.

And where can it be more safe than with a lovely baby who look at you with their twinkling eyes?

We draw circles. We draw circles to keep people in, and we draw circles to keep people out. We get drawn into circles, a...
09/05/2020

We draw circles.

We draw circles to keep people in, and we draw circles to keep people out. We get drawn into circles, and we get shut out of them.

That year, I found myself excluded from the circle I used to belong to and which I loved so dearly. The hurt was intolerable and I reacted by drawing myself smaller and smaller circles, until it almost stiffened my aching heart to a halt.

And then...

My teacher noticed. He knew about circles. He could tell the difference between circles that we drew from a place of love, and circles that we drew from a place of hurt, fear, neediness or insecurity.

He kindly invited me to listen to him as he recited this little poem “Outwitted” by Edwin Markham. He was slow, and I was dreamy. I saw circles in tears.

Looking back, the four lines of this simple poem, this drawing of circles, from a place of love, give a lesson which I keep forgetting, then remembering, learning and re-learning, over and over again. Maybe like circles, there is no end to this learning. Like circles we need to return again and again.

Open-close palmsI remember fondly the first time my then baby daughter learned the game of open-close hands. “Close, Ope...
17/04/2020

Open-close palms

I remember fondly the first time my then baby daughter learned the game of open-close hands.

“Close, Open, close, open,” we would say, as she discovered with great delight what a fun toy her little hands could be.

An open palm helps us sense relaxation, and it is often a signal of contentment and surrender of control. It allows things to be given to you or things to be taken away. It let things be.

A closed palm speaks of a desire to control, to exert efforts and to hold on. It is about the will to have things our way.

When we face stresses in life, we tend to contract our flexor muscles in the arm and hand resulting in a tight fist. And even when what have caused the stresses are long gone, the fists stay put. We remain stressed.

Which is better? Open or close? Well, just like no one can only breathe in and not breathe out, we need both the open and close palms to get on in life.

Healing thus occurs not in the open position as many assume. It occurs when we become aware of the sensations of both positions, can consciously choose between them, and always retain the flexibility transitioning between them. Healing is about not being stuck in any one position.

Enjoy this exercise below. Synchronize your inhaling with closing your palm, and exhaling with opening the fist. The secret is to do it slowly, with full attention so that you can sense how it feels going between the two positions. So that you know you are transitioning when you are transitioning.

Feel the pleasure as your hands learn to dance the beautiful dance of the jelly fish!

Warm drinks, warm feelings?According to a social priming study by John Bargh, University of Colorado, holding a warm cup...
05/04/2020

Warm drinks, warm feelings?

According to a social priming study by John Bargh, University of Colorado, holding a warm cup of coffee makes one socially closer to others, seeing strangers as more welcoming and trustworthy, while a cold drink had the opposite effect. The results of the study, and its extrapolations, have subsequently been questioned by some social psychologists, who have tried and failed to replicate similar outcomes.

Whilst psychologists fail to reach a consensus, we ourselves are the ultimate authority of our subjective experience. I personally find holding a warm cup and drinking a warm drink a most soothing and relaxing experience.

Holding a warm cup increases our physical warmth. It is as if we were holding hands with a most trusted friend. Interestingly, there is an acupuncture point in the palm named Láogōng PC8 (勞宮穴) the warming of which is said to have the effect of soothing one’s mood and bringing peace of mind (清心安神).

Drinking hot beverages also slows us down. A hot drink can only be taken slowly. We sip, we wait, we blow, we breathe, and we see the vapors rising up, dispersing into the vastness surrounding us. And suddenly life does not get rushed through. We live.

So whilst in isolation, and deprived from the comfort of warm physical touch from each other, a warm cup of your most favorite drink might do wonders for you!

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