06/06/2026
For years, I thought I just wasn't trying hard enough.
If I could be more disciplined.
Have more faith.
Be more positive.
More resilient.
Maybe I'd finally stop ending up in hospital.
Maybe the pain would improve.
Maybe the fatigue would lift.
But eventually I realised I was asking the wrong question.
Instead of asking, "How can I try harder?"
I needed to ask, "What does my body actually need?"
That shift changed everything.
Knowledge helped me far more than self-blame ever did.
I'm curious:
What belief about your health did you have to unlearn?