12/06/2026
We were standing in the chatoic Tokyo subway station...humid, hungry, a little turned around and I could feel that familiar spiral starting in me: Okay, I need to fix this. Fast. Don’t let it fall apart.
The plan had fallen apart. We were headed in the wrong direction. And then something surprised me.
My 14 and 12 year old recovered in real time.
A looked at the subway map and started comparing routes. L asked a stranger for help… clear, calm, and confident (proud mamma moment!). I stood there thinking: this is why we travel.
Not for the pictures. Not the perfect itinerary. But the testing of our nervous system. The recovery. The resilience. The real life executive functioning that shows up when it actually matters (bc the conversations over dinner debriefing how we dealt with it are in many ways more important than what they learn in books).
We are traveling for 7 weeks through Asia. Not as a break from real life, but as a way to be fully
inside it. On purpose. For our marriage. For learning our kids in a deeper way.
For the kinds of conversations that don’t happen in the in between minutes at home.
As an OT in pelvic health, I’m coming back to the same principles: build capacity, stay curious, and keep moving forward even when things don’t go to plan. I believe in doing hard things + failure is feedback. It’s info that helps you adjust, refine, and move forward smarter.
Long travel has a way of making that belief tangible. Because travel doesn’t just create memories. It reveals patterns. It
shows you how you respond under stress, what you lean on, and what becomes possible when you loosen your grip on perfect. It gives your nervous system new reps. It gives your relationships more room to breathe.
We’re heading into this season ready for the stretch and the reward: the beauty, the missed turns, the laughter, the hard lessons that turn into stories, and the closeness that comes from doing life side by side for weeks.
We’re going to learn a lot. About the world, about each other, and about the version of ourselves that shows up when we choose growth on purpose.