Chabinga Samsun

20/02/2026

𝑫𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑴𝒆,

They say, “𝑯𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒉𝒊𝒎𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒊𝒔 𝒎𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕𝒚,” and I see your quiet battles and your victories.

“𝑭𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆𝒔, 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒖𝒑 𝒆𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕,” and still you rise. That is strength.

You are learning that “𝑵𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒎 𝒍𝒂𝒔𝒕𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓,” and even when the night feels long, your dawn always comes.

Remember, “𝑨 𝒕𝒓𝒆𝒆 𝒅𝒐𝒆𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒔𝒆 𝒊𝒕𝒔 𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒕𝒔,” so honor your journey, your scars, your growth.

Be patient with yourself, for “𝑮𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒓𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒎𝒆𝒅 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒅𝒓𝒐𝒑 𝒂𝒕 𝒂 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆.”

I am proud of you becoming, healing and standing.

Keep the ball rolling yang lad.

𝓒𝓱𝓪𝓫𝓲𝓷𝓰𝓪

18/02/2026

𝓒𝓱𝓪𝓫𝓲𝓷𝓰𝓪¹

13/02/2026

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 “𝑺𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆 𝑲𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒏” 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞

Everyone agreed that Lila was bright and beautiful always neatly dressed, always smiling. But when visitors came to the house, whispers followed.

“𝑾𝒂𝒕𝒄𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒖𝒑𝒔.”
“𝑫𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒔𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒏𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒓.”

Because Lila had a habit people didn’t understand.
She would collect small cups, lids and bottles. She would spit a little saliva inside, squeeze toothpaste, add soap, or mix random powders then carefully stir them like she was cooking a special recipe.

Some relatives were angry.
“𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒅𝒊𝒓𝒕𝒚!”
“𝑺𝒉𝒆’𝒔 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒐𝒍𝒅 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕!”
"𝑾𝒉𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒔𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝒂 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒅𝒍𝒆𝒓?"

They thought she was being silly or stubborn.

But her aunt, who worked with children with developmental and sensory conditions, watched closely. She noticed Lila focused deeply while mixing. Calm. Regulated. Peaceful. It wasn’t mischief it was sensory play.

Lila processed the world through texture, smell and movement. Mixing gave her control and comfort when her thoughts felt crowded.

Instead of scolding, her aunt created a safe sensory station:

• Plastic bowls only
• Water and food coloring
• Flour and salt
• Scented safe gels
• Stirring sticks
• Clear rules about hygiene
“𝑯𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒔𝒄𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒌𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒏,” she told her.

Lila beamed.

The cup-spitting stopped because the need behind it was finally understood.



Some behaviors that look “𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒐𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈” or “𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒈𝒖𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈” may be:
• Sensory-seeking behavior
• Developmental differences
• Autism-related play patterns
• Self-regulation strategies

Punishment alone rarely fixes misunderstood behavior.

Understanding the need and redirecting it safely often does.

𝑺𝒆𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒐𝒏 𝒃𝒆𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏. 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒕’𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒃𝒆𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒔.

11/02/2026

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐤𝐞𝐭 𝐌𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞!!!

Miriam took a deep breath before stepping into the supermarket with her son, Leo. For most parents, it was a simple errand. For her, it was also a learning trip a chance for Leo, who is autistic and has ADHD, to practice being in busy places, hearing different sounds, seeing colors and learning patience.

At first, Leo was doing well. He held the side of the cart, humming softly, eyes moving quickly from shelf to shelf. The bright lights and music were already a lot, but he was trying.

Then they reached the toy aisle by accident.

Leo froze then pointed.
“𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒊𝒕. 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒊𝒕 𝒏𝒐𝒘.”

Miriam knelt beside him. “𝑵𝒐𝒕 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚, 𝒃𝒖𝒅𝒅𝒚. 𝑾𝒆’𝒓𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒄𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒔. 𝑹𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏.”

The hum turned into loud crying. Then shouting. Then he dropped to the floor, overwhelmed. People stared. Some moved away. A few shook their heads.

Miriam stayed calm. She spoke gently, using the coping steps they practiced. “𝑩𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒉𝒆. 𝑯𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒔 𝒐𝒏 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒔𝒕. 𝑪𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒕 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒆.”

A man pushing a basket walked past and muttered loudly,
“𝑺𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒅𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝒕𝒐 𝒓𝒂𝒊𝒔𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒏 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒍𝒚.”

Miriam heard it but kept focusing on Leo.

Moments later, the same man passed again and repeated, even louder,
“𝑻𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒊𝒑𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈.”

This time, Miriam looked up. Not angry just tired.

“𝑯𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒏𝒂𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕𝒚,” she said quietly.
“𝑯𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒎𝒆𝒅. 𝑯𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒓𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈. 𝑨𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒐 𝒂𝒎 𝑰,”

The man paused, uncomfortable. For the first time, he really looked at the noise canceling headphones hanging on the cart, the visual schedule card clipped to Leo’s shirt, the trembling hands slowly calming.

Leo sniffled, stood up, and leaned into his mother. She hugged him, proud not because he stopped crying, but because he recovered.

They continued shopping. Not perfectly but bravely.

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐁𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐄𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐀𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜/𝐀𝐃𝐇𝐃 𝐂𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐧
• Not every meltdown is bad behavior many are sensory overload or emotional flooding
• These children are not “𝑺𝒑𝒐𝒊𝒍𝒆𝒅” their brains process the world differently
• Parents are not weak they are often highly trained and deeply patient
• Kindness helps more than judgment
• Ask, learn, read, attend awareness programs
• Give space instead of stares
• Support instead of shame

𝐄𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬
You are not failing. You are building strength that most people cannot see. Every outing is progress. Every calm moment is victory. Keep going your love is working, even when the world doesn’t understand yet.

05/02/2026

I love reading such post.

31/01/2026

Then there’s you sleeping with an extension cable on the bed very dangerous.

28/01/2026

Mocking someone during a medical emergency is harmful and dangerous.
Conditions like seizures can look confusing, but they are not a joke and not drunkenness.
When someone is having a seizure:
Stay calm
Clear the area to prevent injury
Do not put anything in their mouth
Turn them on their side after it stops
Get medical help if it lasts over 5 minutes
Instead of laughing, filming, or judging help.

Today it’s them. Tomorrow it could be anyone.

28/01/2026

The cycle is clear:
WORK → SALARY → SPEND → BROKE.
This system was never designed to make you wealthy — only to keep you surviving.
Real transformation begins when you shift from earning to building, from spending to investing, and from dependency to ownership.
Until we challenge the system, we will continue to raise educated workers instead of empowered creators.
The future belongs to those who think differently.

Dr Joseph Mushalika

27/01/2026

𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐌𝐞 𝐓𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲

At school, there is a boy named Sam who never seems to sit still. While the other children sit quietly on the mat, Sam rocks back and forth, trying to settle his body. When the school bell rings, he quickly covers his ears, as if the sound is too much for him to bear. During lessons, he chews his pencil until it is almost broken—not because he is bored, but because his body is searching for something it needs.

At home, it doesn’t stop. Sam crashes onto the couch, jumps off tables, and touches everything in sight. To those watching, it looks like chaos. To Sam, it is survival. His body is constantly asking for input, searching for a way to feel calm, safe, and in control.

Teachers begin to complain. Relatives whisper in corners. Other parents stare and shake their heads.
“Discipline him.”
“He’s stubborn.”
“He just wants attention.”

But Sam is not trying to be difficult.

Sam is seeking sensory input. His body feels like a radio with a poor signal—everything sounds fuzzy and unclear unless he turns the volume up. Movement helps him focus. Deep pressure helps him feel calm. Touch helps him understand where his body is in space.

When Sam spins, jumps, chews, or crashes, he is not misbehaving. He is regulating himself in the only way he knows how. And when the adults around him do not understand this, Sam is punished—not for doing wrong, but for listening to his body.

21/01/2026

Knowledge is power

HOW TO KNOW WHICH BUSINESS TO START USING YOUR SALARY

Here are five misconceptions about a salary;

1. It's too little
2. It's from hand to mouth
4. It's supposed to be big enough to solve problems 😕
5. It should have been bigger.

Your responsibility is not to earn the largest salary in the world. That may never happen. Your job and my job is to live such simple lives that our salaries suddenly becomes and appear big. Secondly we must be creative with it. Here is how-

A. HAVE A BUSINESS LIFE- what business can you engage in as you work to make extra money (our goal is to start with 10% income at 30% investment with a 40% savings plan once capital doubles.)

Never depend on one source of income. It is depressing.

B. 🤔 THINK THINK THINK

What opportunities do you see around you that no one is satisfying? Is there a shortage of water that you could mitigate? Is there a need for a stationary supply shop at a University near your home? Do employees near your work need breakfast that you can supply?

Remember a horse pipe will always be wet by the water it transports.

C. DON'T SATISFY THE WHOLE WORLD

Many people fail to make it in business because they want huge profits. Start small, create a system and then expansion will follow.

Find your niche in business and do it. A watch repair does not make watches. He just fixes them. A waiter is not a farmer. A teacher does not manufacture chalk neither does a plumber make pipes. Each one has found their place in the value chain and market place. Find yours.

D. ENJOY MAKING 10%

People will accuse you of loving ❤ money too much. But what they don't know is that you love the process of getting wealthy slowly. You love your 10% and you enjoy seeing it grow. That is the discipline of entrepreneur junkies.

E. WHAT CAN YOU PUT YOUR PASSION IN?

If you have other responsibilities like a job or school or even another business, starting a new venture means pouring your heart into something else. So what can you do during lunch time, or after hours or before hours? What can you do over the weekends or holidays. Or when on leave?

F. KILL ALL YOUR EXCUSES

As long as you have an excuse and a justification for everything especially poverty and mediocrity, then progress will elude you.

Robert Kennedy once said, "There are those who look at the way things are and ask 'why'. Then there are those who look at the way things could be and ask 'why not'?"

God be with you and may He alone guide you to establish your networth effectively with a powerful network.

There is no overnight success but there is overnight motivation and inspiration for those who seek a better life for themselves.

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