20/07/2026
When someone seems offended by your Autonomy, they react like they are threatened by your loving Directness, are defensive of your Clear direction, behave grudgingly & sarcastically of your joy & lightness, Badgering your Choices & imposing their fears, insecurity & doubt on you, these are all red flags🚩and they cloak their “bad reaction” with explanations like ‘its a joke’, that they care too much, feel worried, are being protective of you, want to guide you, are thinking of your best interest & your “shortcomings” that could potentially disappoint you!
These are all Manipulative behaviors designed to control your choices, through influencing your thought process and curbing the freedom-to-choose your life experiences.
Have you ever had this experience with family, friends, colleagues, other groups?
Succumbing to these patterns by “sparing their feelings” or “blocking them” don’t heal the wounds as we have yet to learn how to truly transcend these patterns in ourselves once and for all. And as a result have to keep our guard up at all times and our sympathetic nervous system activated in fight/flight/freeze/fawn mode disturbing the internal Peace, Balance and disrupting Optimal functioning of our entire system, as we suffer from insomnia, Adhd symptoms, chronic anxiety and fatigue etc.
There is nothing wrong with you, You simply need to learn key practices to liberate yourself from limiting patterns of thought, emotion and behavior that are not serving your Growth & Evolution.