10/06/2026
I am the queen of the post-it note. I bloody love them. If you have ever had a consult with me, likely you’ve left the consult with at least one, with a quick recommendation, referral or idea scribbled on it for you to look further into.
Sometimes, I write them for myself if a patient says something interesting, insightful, or something I need to follow up on for my own learning. This particular consult was fruitful - the patient told me about “the buff m**f method” (no questions this needed further attention on my part), and then she said something really, really applicable to everyone who has ever sat in the pink swivel chair “even my autopilot feels like it’s not functioning.” Seemingly one of the universal experiences during perimenopause.
So I wrote that down and bought it home, and stuck it in the place in my house where all the important things go - the fruit bowl pile (Hamish and Andy did a funny bit on this - so I know it’s a thing!).
Alas, my 17 year old son found it (I mean, it wasn’t hidden), Wilbur Wild we call him. “Mum! What the hell is the buff m**f method???!!!!”
I just looked at my husband and said, isn’t it good we’re raising these boys to understand the normalcy of womanhood? (He rolled his eyes - 20+ years of pregnancy, breastfeeding, and woman’s business notched up for him! 🙄 😂).