Michael Finn Health Services

Michael Finn Health Services Michael's approach is a fusion of Traditional Chinese Medicine and Counselling.

07/08/2026

The highest form of intelligence, according to some researchers, isn't logic, speed, or memory.

It's metacognition, the ability to think about your own thinking.

Metacognition is the brain watching itself. When you "notice yourself thinking," the spotlight turns inward.
You stop being inside the thought. You start examining it.

Neuroscientists have found that during this kind of self-observation, a region in the anterior prefrontal cortex becomes more active.

In plain terms: you have a neural system specifically designed for self-observation. Your brain can study its own code in real time.

A practical example: simple emotion labeling. Saying "I'm anxious" or "I'm angry" changes what the brain is doing. Not metaphorically. Literally.

Research from UCLA suggests that labeling an emotion engages regulatory regions in the prefrontal cortex and dampens activity in the amygdala, the brain's alarm system.

Naming your inner state shifts brain activity.
Awareness itself can alter the pattern.

While metacognition is the ability to think about your own thinking, memory reconsolidation is the ability to recall and edit your own memories.

When you recall an event, the memory becomes temporarily malleable.
For a short window, new context or emotional meaning can be added.
You're not erasing the past.
You're updating how it's stored and remembered.

That is metacognition applied to past experiences.

This is the exact reason reason why some forms of therapy work.
It changes the meaning attached to remembered experience.
The memory stays. The grip it has on you loosens.

Put it together and the picture is striking:
→ You can observe your own thinking.
→ Naming a feeling shifts your brain.
→ Recalling a memory makes it editable.

You are not stuck with your default reactions. You have leverage on them, if you notice them.

So the next time you catch yourself saying:
"Wait, why did I react like that?"
That moment is not trivial.
It's metacognition at work.
And it's often the first step in rewriting what you do next.

We spend our lives inside our thoughts. That single move, noticing instead of reacting, is the difference between living on autopilot and living on purpose.

Your brain is already equipped for it. All you have to do is use it.

Fleming, S. M., & Dolan, R. J. (2012). The neural basis of metacognitive ability. *Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society (1594), 1338-1349.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3318765/

Lieberman, M. D., Eisenberger, N. I., Crockett, M. J., Tom, S. M., Pfeifer, J. H., & Way, B. M. (2007). Putting feelings into words: Affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity in response to affective stimuli, 421-428.
https://sanlab.psych.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/31/2015/05/Lieberman_AL-2007.pdf

Nader, K., Schafe, G. E., & LeDoux, J. E. (2000). Fear memories require protein synthesis in the amygdala for reconsolidation after retrieval. (6797), 722-726.
https://www.nature.com/articles/35021052

If intimacy is disappearing from your relationship, the problem might not be s*x.It might be communication.We don't all ...
03/08/2026

If intimacy is disappearing from your relationship, the problem might not be s*x.

It might be communication.

We don't all experience intimacy in the same way. And when we don't understand what our partner needs to feel close and connected, frustration can quickly grow.

Good communication underpins intimacy.

When we feel heard and understood, we create the connection that allows intimacy to grow.

DM me for enquiries or book a session via the link in my bio.

You can love each other and still feel disconnected.Often, that disconnection begins with communication.One partner may ...
27/07/2026

You can love each other and still feel disconnected.

Often, that disconnection begins with communication.

One partner may seek physical intimacy to feel close, while the other needs to feel emotionally close before they desire physical intimacy.

Neither is necessarily wrong.

Understanding each other's needs—and learning how to communicate them—can help you find your way back to connection.

DM me for enquiries or book a session via the link in my bio.

Sometimes, couples become so focused on what’s wrong that they lose sight of where they want to go.In counselling, there...
24/07/2026

Sometimes, couples become so focused on what’s wrong that they lose sight of where they want to go.

In counselling, there’s a saying that we’re often experts in our problems, but not their solutions.

When a relationship becomes problem-saturated, it’s easy to keep revisiting the same frustrations and repeating the same patterns.

The first step forward isn’t finding someone to blame.

It’s recognising the patterns that are keeping you stuck.

Once you can see those patterns, you can begin focusing on the relationship you want to create, rather than the one you’re trying to escape.

If your relationship feels stuck in the same cycle, counselling can help you find a new path forward.

DM me for enquiries or book a session via the link in my bio.

22/07/2026

To book with Michael, visit his website via the link in bio or send him a DM.

21/07/2026

Gert Biesta on the real reason we should be wary of AI in education.

Intimacy isn’t just about s*x.For many couples, problems with intimacy begin with problems in communication.While some p...
19/07/2026

Intimacy isn’t just about s*x.

For many couples, problems with intimacy begin with problems in communication.

While some people feel connected through physical intimacy, others need to feel emotionally connected first.

Good communication helps us feel heard, understood and closer to each other.

And that connection can create the foundation for deeper intimacy.

If you and your partner are struggling with communication or intimacy, DM me for enquiries or book a session via the link in my bio.

16/07/2026

The mind clings to pain longer than praise

Our brains are wired to remember harsh words more vividly than kind ones. Studies show that insults and criticism can be recalled for years, while compliments often fade within a month.

This imbalance comes from our evolutionary need to survive. The amygdala, the brain’s emotional alarm, reacts strongly to negative experiences, marking them as threats. Positive moments, though pleasant, trigger weaker responses, leaving softer traces in memory.

The result is a quiet distortion. One cruel comment can outweigh dozens of kind ones, shaping how we see ourselves and others long after the moment has passed.

But awareness can shift the balance. Repeating gratitude, journaling positive experiences, and giving regular, specific praise help strengthen the memory of good events.

By understanding this bias, we can choose to feed what heals rather than what harms.

Kindness, practiced often enough, becomes its own kind of memory.

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